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It Doesn’t Have to Hurt: 10 Ways to Help Relieve Pain

In an exclusive excerpt adapted from his new book, 'It Doesn’t Have to Hurt', Sanjay Gupta reveals an array of medications and techniques that offer hope for those who live with chronic pain


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10 Tools to Help with Pain

  1. Endorphins: Your body’s natural painkillers
  2. Healing with ‘MEAT’
  3. Temperature therapy
  4. Supplements
  5. Nonopioid analgesic medications
  6. Nonopioid prescriptions
  7. Medical interventions and medication management
  8. Psychological approaches
  9. Cannabis and ketamine
  10. Acupuncture, yoga, meditation and more

Not too long ago, I was skiing with my kids on their spring break when my mother called.

She knew I was on the slopes, so I was concerned at seeing her number pop up. I pushed my helmet away from my ear and said hello, and she got straight to the point: “I broke my back.”

My mother, who was then 81 and had hardly ever been sick a day in her life, had lost her balance while rolling her suitcase and toppled backward, landing in a sitting position. It hurt, and afterward her back felt sore, but she didn’t think much of it until the pain persisted. 

Despite massaging her back, resting it, icing it and even heating it for a few days, the pain wouldn’t go away. So nearly a week after the injury, she went to get an X-ray.

It Doesn’t Have to Hurt: Your Smart Guide to a Pain-Free Life
Simon & Schuster

In It Doesn’t Have to Hurt: Your Smart Guide to a Pain-Free Life, Sanjay Gupta, M.D., shares effective options for relief that you can start practicing today to greatly reduce your chances of suffering pain tomorrow.

Mom had a fracture of the first vertebra in her lumbar spine — an L1 compression fracture that compressed her bone from its normal cylindrical shape to that of a pancake.

“I cannot live like this,” she told me. I knew the excruciating pain could be expected to last at least a couple of months, which would feel like a lifetime for her. I also knew she wasn’t interested in taking high doses of opioid pain medications. Finally, she made it clear that she didn’t want an aggressive operation, given her age and frailty.

So, along with her doctors, we landed on a relatively new approach to deal with her pain, a minimally invasive procedure known as kyphoplasty, in which a hollow needle is used to insert a small balloon into the broken bone, which is then inflated. 

As the balloon enlarges, the bone starts to regain its normal height. X-rays make it possible to assess when the bone looks close to normal again, and then the balloon can be deflated and removed. Finally, a dollop of hot liquid cement is injected, which quickly hardens and helps the vertebra maintain its normal anatomy.

On the morning of the procedure, she looked at me and said, “If this doesn’t help with the pain, I think my time here on earth is done.” It was devastating to hear. My tough mom now seemed so weak.

That is the thing about pain. When you are in agony, it is all-encompassing.

Thankfully the procedure, which took about an hour, went well, and my mom felt almost instantaneous relief. While the surgery can relieve pain in many different ways, it certainly seemed that a significant amount of her pain relief was psychological, because the procedure had provided a much-needed dose of hope. 

Whatever the case, she immediately reduced her pain score from “I want to die” to a 3 out of 10. On the day I left her she was whistling in the kitchen as she cooked.

My mother’s recovery isn’t a miracle, or even an anomaly. Indeed, a dizzying amount of medical progress has been made since I became a neurosurgeon more than 25 years ago. We better understand what causes pain, what may best relieve it, and what we can do to minimize or even eliminate certain types of pain. 

Many of those life-changing insights have not yet been made easily available to the public. If you are in pain, there are far more effective options than you may have previously realized, as well as important things you should start doing today to greatly reduce your chances of suffering pain tomorrow. 

These are strategies I have started incorporating into my life, as well as the lives of my wife, teenage kids and parents.

The pain management toolbox

If you’ve read anything about pain over the past 20 years, you have likely been angered by the opioid epidemic, a tragedy fueled by ignorance, arrogance and greed.

Because opioids have consumed most of the conversation, most people don’t even realize there are plenty of other effective options to help relieve pain, including breathtaking breakthroughs that would have been unimaginable only a few years ago. 

Modern science and ancient wisdom have collectively begun to crack the code on pain. You can too. Consider this your pain management toolbox.

1. Endorphins: Your body’s natural painkillers

You know that opioids are some of the world’s most powerful painkillers. But what you may not know is that your body is adept at producing natural compounds that have similar effects. They’re called endorphins, a term that merges the words “endogenous” (meaning “from within”) and “morphine.” Pump up the endorphins — decrease the pain.

How does it work? Opioids bind to receptors located on the outer membrane of nerve cells in the brain, spinal cord and other organs, triggering a cascade of chemical changes within and between neurons, producing feelings of pleasure as well as pain relief.

Under extreme stress, the fight-or-flight hormones can trigger the endogenous opioid system, which greatly reduces the pain. “[It] is one of the most potent analgesic, anti-pain molecules that exists,” says Daniela Salvemini, director of Saint Louis University’s Institute for Translational Neuroscience.

These endogenous opioid benefits take place at a subconscious level, but now we know that simply moving — jogging or going for a brisk walk — can trigger an endorphin release that delivers the rush we call a “runner’s high.” Gazing at a sunset or a loved one can help do it as well.

If you don’t believe in the essential power of these chemicals, consider the story of Dan Kruger, whose 40-year career as a motorbike racer led to fractures of his back, ribs, hands, wrists, fingers, leg, ankles, toes, jaw and collarbones — and eventually, an opioid addiction. Kruger overcame both the pain and the addiction through 15-minute guided meditations and his own mindfulness exercises.

“It’s amazing that while meditating to the 15-minute guided recording, my chronic pain or migraines disappear,” he says. He compares it to his workouts at the gym, training to stay in shape. “I train every day because it gives me these endorphins that help me get positive, reduce stress and stay fit. Meditation does much the same thing for me.”

Over time, Kruger carefully weaned himself off opioids, even refusing them after injuries and operations that followed. After a full year of his opioid-free recovery, the combination of brain-training techniques and other conventional and complementary pain management tools continued to deliver adequate relief, he says.

2. Healing with ‘MEAT’

You’ve probably heard of RICE — rest, ice, compression and elevation — and may have even used it to treat a strained muscle or painful bruise. Recently, though, a growing consensus suggests the better option is to replace RICE with MEAT, which stands for movement, exercise, analgesia and treatment.

Here’s why. The downside of RICE is that it tamps down short-term inflammation. Normally, we think of inflammation as a bad thing — and that’s true, when we’re talking about chronic inflammation. 

Chronic inflammation, which occurs throughout the body, can cause pain directly by attacking the tissues — for example, in the case of arthritis, a painful condition associated with chronic inflammation — and it can also lead to diseases, from heart disease to cancer, that can inflict pain on us. 

But acute inflammation — meaning the swelling and redness that occur at the site of an injury — is actually beneficial to our healing process. While dialing down inflammation may initially ease pain, it also can delay or inhibit long-term tissue healing. 

Given what we now know, RICE should no longer be the blanket recommendation for pain management. Instead, the emphasis is now on these four steps:

  • Movement: Mild movement or exercise improves blood flow and circulation of healing agents to the injured area, stimulating muscle, tendons, ligaments and other tissue.
  • Exercise: For a muscle injury, this would involve gentle moves designed to slowly restore function and flexibility. For other types of soft tissue that are bruised or swollen from, for example, surgery or trauma, mild exercise further improves circulation.
  • Analgesia: Cautious use of pain relievers or natural anti-inflammatories such as turmeric or capsaicin, which may inhibit healing for the reasons already described. Also consider topical anesthetics and analgesic patches.
  • Treatment: This might include physical therapy, massage, acupuncture or less-familiar therapies such as “dry needling,” myofascial release (and other techniques using targeted massage to release tension in a specific muscle area) and joint mobilization (to improve range of motion).

Can you roll away pain?

Muscle-massaging foam rollers can, with regular use, diminish your chances of pain, especially after a soft-tissue injury. 

The thin connective tissue called fascia, which surrounds all our muscles, can get painfully stiff and tight throughout your life, so keeping it loose and flexible with those rollers is critically important. 

There is also new, encouraging data emerging on acupuncture, trigger point injections and hands-on physical manipulation as well.

3. Temperature therapy

Heat and cold can both help relieve pain, though they work in different ways and are best for different situations.

Cold therapy, such as an ice pack, is best for short-term pain, applied within the first 72 hours to counter swelling. Keep in mind that while cold temperature slows blood flow, which can help reduce pain from sprains, strains and other acute injuries, it may also decrease inflammation, slow healing and increase the likelihood of chronic pain.

Heat therapy, such as a heating pad, is best for long-standing muscle pain, stiffness and chronic pain conditions. Because it boosts blood flow, which can help relax muscles and ease aching joints, heat therapy is often recommended before exercise or stretching or to ease morning stiffness.

4. Supplements

People are turning increasingly to dietary supplements, seeking out substances they perceive as natural. Unfortunately, because there are very few good, randomized trials, it’s hard to find solid evidence of the benefits of this approach. Still, here are a few supplements worth considering:

  • Coenzyme Q10, or CoQ10: There is evidence that this coenzyme can improve mitochondrial function within cells, thereby boosting cellular energy, and also act as an anti-inflammatory. It may also effectively lower systolic blood pressure.
  • Magnesium: Evidence exists that this simple mineral, which is found in all our bones, can help with pain, particularly in the lower back. By blocking calcium from entering cells, magnesium may reduce the excitability of your muscles, allowing them to relax and reduce spasm, especially after exercise.
  • Turmeric: The active ingredient, curcumin, is thought to be a potent anti-inflammatory and may be effective for osteoarthritis of the knees. It has been found to help reduce the symptoms of irritable bowel syndrome. In lab experiments, however, turmeric inhibited some chemotherapy drugs from working against breast cancer cells and also increased the risk of kidney stones, so check with your doctor before taking it.
  • Willow bark: The active ingredient in willow bark is salicin, which is similar to aspirin. It is broken down into salicylic acid in the body, which helps decrease pain and fever but, like aspirin, may have side effects such as upset stomach and bleeding problems.

5. Nonopioid analgesic medications

Let’s take a look in your medicine cabinet and get a real sense of what’s on hand.

Acetaminophen (paracetamol), found in Tylenol, FeverAll, Panadol: An analgesic medication that works in the brain to increase the body’s pain threshold and change the way the body senses pain. It also works to bring down fever and regulate body temperature.

  • Best for: Headaches, muscle aches, sore throat, toothaches, backaches, sprains and strains. Best painkiller for people with gastrointestinal issues.
  • Don’t use for: Nerve pain or inflammatory conditions.
  • Avoid if: You are a heavy drinker or have existing liver issues. Take no more than 1,000 milligrams (mg) at a time, and no more than 4,000 mg over a 24-hour period, to avoid liver issues.

Ibuprofen (Advil, Motrin, Midol), Naproxen (Aleve, Naprosyn, Naprelan): Nonsteroidal anti-inflammatories (NSAIDs) that reduce fever and block prostaglandins — compounds that cause pain and inflammation. Consult your doctor to determine the dosage and frequency of use that is best for you.

  • Best for: Headaches, musculoskeletal pain, arthritis, toothaches, backaches and sunburn. These may be safer choices than aspirin for those with bleeding risk but are still associated with gastrointestinal issues.
  • Don’t use for: Nerve pain.
  • Avoid if: You take blood thinners or have uncontrolled high blood pressure, heart failure, ulcers, or liver or kidney disease.

Aspirin: An NSAID that stops the production of prostaglandins, which cause pain and inflammation. It also reduces fever and blood clotting.

  • Best for: Headaches, arthritis, toothaches, muscle aches, sprains, strains.
  • Don’t use for: Wounds or bruises (aspirin may promote bleeding) or nerve pain.
  • Avoid if: You take blood thinners or have uncontrolled high blood pressure, kidney disease, ulcers or other bleeding risks.

Topical pain relievers: Analgesics that temporarily relieve pain at the skin’s surface. A topical NSAID called diclofenac sodium topical gel 1 percent (Voltaren, and over the counter as a generic drug) can be effective for joint pain.

  • Best for: Nerve pain and soft-tissue injuries.
  • Don’t use for: Wounds or open sores.
  • Avoid if: You are allergic to lidocaine, aspirin or NSAIDs, or if you have liver or heart issues.

An important reminder: Always tell your doctor about any supplements you’re taking, as even over-the-counter products might cause concerning drug interactions.

6. Nonopioid prescriptions

We’ve seen remarkable progress since the days when opioids and steroids were used to treat most pain maladies. For example:

Sodium channel blockers: Just this year, the FDA approved Journavx, the first drug in a new class of nonopioid pain medicines. While opioids primarily work by dulling sensations in the brain, the new drug, in 50 mg oral tablets, is reported to reduce pain by targeting a pain-signaling pathway in the peripheral nervous system, before the pain signals reach the brain.

The discovery of this drug has a fascinating backstory. More than two decades ago, researchers learned about a boy in Pakistan who could walk on hot coals without flinching. Researchers found and examined three families from the same region with offspring who could not feel pain. 

It wasn’t that they were numb. Rather it was just the pain-conducting nerves that were affected. That observation led to further investigation, the identification of a gene mutation unique to these families, and ultimately helped inspire the development of the new medication.

Gabapentin: Originally developed as an anticonvulsant, it helps manage neuropathic pain by regulating how pain messages travel from the brain through the spinal cord and reducing the excitability of nerve cells in the brain. Gabapentin (sold under the brand names Horizant, Gralise and Neurontin) was approved for treatment of neuropathic pain more than 20 years ago, but it is far from a perfect drug. It works best for postherpetic neuralgia (a complication of shingles); evidence for other types of neuropathic pain is very limited.

Antidepressants: It’s not clear why they help relieve pain for some people. What is clear is that they take a long time to work, sometimes up to several weeks, and even then, not every drug works for every issue. A 2023 meta-analysis concluded that “the only antidepressant we are certain about for the treatment of chronic pain is duloxetine [Cymbalta]. Duloxetine was moderately efficacious across all outcomes at standard dose.”

7. Medical interventions and medication management

The following are some of the many available options for pain relief and management:

Neuromodulation, including spinal cord stimulation, an implanted device that sends low levels of electricity directly into the spinal cord to relieve pain; deep brain stimulation; and local (external) electrical stimulation, applying brief pulses of electricity to nerve endings under the skin to provide pain relief (Scrambler Therapy, TENS).

Injection therapies, in which medication is injected directly into the site of the discomfort. These include epidural steroid injections, nerve blocks, joint injections and trigger point injections.

Dry needling, which can be initially painful, involves placing thin, sharp needles through the skin and into what are known as “trigger points,” areas of muscle that have become knotted and tender. The needling can decrease tightness, improve blood flow and reduce pain. It’s called “dry” because there are no medications in the needle.

Non-painkiller injections. They may include:

  • Botox
  • Gel injections (hyaluronic acid to mimic cushioning fluid in joints), often used for knee pain, such as mild to moderate arthritis
  • Prolotherapy injections (concentrated sugar water to relieve pain in joints, ligaments and tendons)
  • Regenerative medicine (orthobiologics): a newer category, including injectables made from your own blood or tissue, or application of dressings using biomaterials (such as placenta), used to restore tissue in skin grafts and other wound or surgical sites
  • Platelet-rich plasma injections and cell therapy: PRP injections involve taking the patient’s blood, isolating and concentrating the platelets, and injecting billions of them into the joint, ligament or tendon. Some newer injectables, called cell therapies, collect cells and tissues from bone marrow or fat tissue. The cells are collected, cleansed and injected into the patient’s joint, ligament or tendon.

8. Psychological approaches

Clinical hypnosis (with a trained therapist), self-hypnosis, mindfulness-based pain management and other mind-body approaches are among several techniques that have been shown to help some people not only manage pain but also improve sleep, eating habits, exercise choices to support a more active lifestyle, and relationship dynamics. The most frequently applied therapy approaches include:

  • Cognitive behavioral therapy for chronic pain
  • Acceptance and commitment therapy
  • Pain reprocessing therapy
  • Emotional awareness and expression therapy

Options for psychological services are growing dramatically as the medical community has awakened to their value and the need to make them more accessible for patients. In addition to one-on-one therapy and group therapy, other options are programs or sessions by telehealth, online, apps and other digital platforms.

9. Cannabis and ketamine

In some treatment areas — including certain types of epilepsy, symptoms of multiple sclerosis, nausea and opioid use disorder — cannabis may be effective. 

When it comes to pain, however, the data is less compelling. And of course, cannabis is not legal for use everywhere. 

After reviewing several randomized controlled trials, here’s how I’d summarize the findings: Some studies suggest cannabis use may provide some relief for chronic pain; however, results are mixed. There were other benefits, such as patients opting for smaller doses of opiates, suggesting a synergistic effect of cannabis with other pain meds. Wherever you come down on the idea of cannabis use for pain, you should talk with your doctor about it.

Ketamine is not a new drug, even if you’ve just started hearing about it. In the 1970s, it was used as a battlefield anesthetic during the Vietnam War. In recent years, however, there has been research into using ketamine as a possible treatment for depression, post-traumatic stress disorder and chronic pain. 

In 2019, researchers published a systematic review and meta-analysis of randomized controlled trials evaluating the effectiveness of intravenous ketamine for those with chronic pain. The conclusion was that while ketamine provides significant short-term analgesic benefit in these patients, larger, multicenter studies with longer follow-ups were needed.

10. Acupuncture, yoga, meditation and more

Complementary and integrative health options round out your toolbox. These health approaches are not just for pain. They’re used to improve sleep, stress management, general wellness, energy and immune health — all of which play a role in pain. 

Think of it as engaging the body’s own resources, from our naturally occurring endogenous opioids to the brain’s learning processes, as well as therapies and practices that engage those processes on command — our personal command.

We need to continue to frame pain management and prevention in the context of our own biological and behavioral arsenal, rather than solely on the conventional focus on pills, patches, needles and procedures.

Adapted from It Doesn’t Have to Hurt: Your Smart Guide to a Pain-Free Life by Sanjay Gupta, M.D. Copyright © 2025 by Sanjay Gupta, M.D. Reprinted by permission of Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved. 

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