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I Paid for Everything With Cash for a Month. Here’s What I Learned

Thirty-one days without tapping my smartphone, shopping online or swiping cards taught me some surprising lessons


a hand holds paper cash over a calendar of the month of january
Personal finance writer Michele Shapiro challenged herself to paying for everything with cash for the entire month of January.
James Boast

You’ve probably heard of Dry January. This year, instead of giving up wine or happy-hour cocktails, I decided to try something that felt equally challenging — and possibly more painful. I committed to paying for everything with cash for the entire month of January.

The idea came to me during the holiday season, when I began to notice how effortless spending has become. Between credit cards, mobile wallets and payment apps like Venmo and Cash App, purchasing is like a sport that requires no training whatsoever. Need coffee? Just tap. Groceries? One swipe. Random Instagram gadgets and skin care products at 11:47 p.m.? Done before I can even talk myself out of them.

A growing pool of research suggests that convenience has quietly changed how we shop. For example, studies in consumer psychology show that people tend to spend more when using credit cards or digital payments than when paying with cash.

“The physical act of holding and handing over cash creates a stronger sense of psychological ownership than using digital cards or third-party mobile payments,” says Jashim Khan, an associate professor and director of international business management at the University of Surrey in England whose research examines the psychology of holding and exchanging hard currency.

Khan says the act of handling cash makes spending money feel more real and emotionally significant, often leading to more deliberate purchasing decisions.

That idea intrigued me. So, on Jan. 1, I withdrew $300 from an ATM to get started. I then tucked my three credit cards and one debit card into a drawer, bade Apple Pay and Venmo a temporary farewell, and committed to paying for everything, from groceries and ice cream to morning coffee and manicures, the old-fashioned way: with bills and coins.

What transpired over the next 31 days was part financial reset, part sociological experiment and part nostalgia tour through a primarily cashless world. Here are seven lessons I took away from my tap- and swipe-free January.

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Unlike digital and credit card payments, cash forces you to confront your budget with each trip to the nearest ATM.
James Boast

Lesson 1: You need a cash withdrawal strategy (and possibly a charm offensive)

Living strictly on cash requires some advance planning. Unlike digital and credit card payments, where my bank account feels bottomless until the monthly statement arrives, cash forces me to confront my budget with each trip to the nearest ATM.

I quickly discovered another reality: Out-of-network ATMs can be expensive. In 2025, the average ATM fee hit $4.86, according to Bankrate’s Checking Account and ATM Fee study. (This consists of a surcharge levied by ATM-operating banks, plus a fee from your bank for using an ATM outside its network.) When I needed cash in a pinch and wasn’t able to access one of my bank’s ATMs, I could feel those fees chip away at my hard-earned savings.

Then there’s the issue of denominations. When withdrawing a large sum of money, many bank ATMs, including those from Chase, Wells Fargo and Bank of America, dispense $100 bills in addition to the usual $20s. They often let you choose which bills you want, but when I was in a hurry I skipped this step and ended up with one or more Benjamins, which are surprisingly hard to spend. Many small businesses either can’t break them or simply won’t. Others hold them up to a light or run them through a machine to check whether they’re real — an act that spiked my cortisol with every transaction.

At one point I walked into a neighborhood bank branch hoping to exchange a $100 bill I’d just gotten from an ATM on the premises for smaller bills. The teller informed me she could only do that if I had an account there. Determined, I remained cheerful and made a point of complimenting her sweater. After a pause, she relented.

“Well, OK, just this once … but we’re offering a promotion if you open a checking account,” she said.

I thanked her, stuffed the wad of bills into my wallet and told her I’d think about it.

The moment was amusing — and revealing. Paying with cash often involves real human interaction and, occasionally, persuasion. Digital payments remove those moments entirely.

That friction may benefit consumers, says Cara Macksoud, a certified financial behavior specialist in Winter Park, Florida, and former Wall Street trader. “When it’s digital, you don’t go through the physical motion of taking cash out of a wallet,” she explains. “We’re missing the pain of paying. Every time you spend cash, your stack decreases, and the brain processes that loss.”

Lesson 2: Cash is still legal tender, but some businesses have found loopholes

Before starting this experiment, I assumed that many stores, especially small businesses, had simply stopped accepting cash. I was surprised to learn that several states and municipalities, including New York City, require most retailers to accept it.

The only place I found that outright refused to accept cash was an ice cream franchise. Instead, it offered what’s known as a reverse ATM, where customers insert cash into a machine and receive a prepaid debit card to use at the store. (A Google search revealed that many sporting venues, including Madison Square Garden, are cashless and offer reverse ATMs.)

However, the system has drawbacks. I put $10 on the prepaid debit card, but my ice cream cost just over $7, leaving me with a prepaid card containing a balance that will likely sit forgotten in a drawer.

Macksoud says situations like this illustrate a broader challenge. “As more businesses move away from cash, it becomes harder for consumers who want to spend intentionally,” she says. “It’s like being on a diet and walking into a restaurant where they’re out of salads.”

As she points out, there are lots of reasons not to use cash, including less germs and not having to wait for someone to make change. Going cash-free also benefits businesses, since the cashier doesn’t have to count every bill and coin at the end of their shift to make sure what’s in the till reflects the completed transactions.

There’s also an advantage for consumers. Reverse ATMs make some customers, myself included, think twice before making a purchase. In fact, the cashier at the ice cream shop told me she’d had several potential cone-lickers walk out when they learned they couldn’t pay with cash, leaving her with melting scoops to discard.

Lesson 3: Spare change adds up

Like many households, my husband and I keep a ceramic bowl on a dresser in which we toss loose change. Over time, it has become a cluttered repository of coins, plus the occasional mystery button.

One afternoon, short on cash, I brought the bowl to a Coinstar machine at my local supermarket. Coinstar offers an option to convert coins into gift cards or cash, but choosing cash comes with a hefty service fee of between 11.9 and 12.9 percent, depending on the location, plus a transaction fee of 99 cents. If I hadn’t needed the cash, I could have avoided the fees by choosing an e-gift card for a retailer (Apple, Starbucks or Southwest Airlines, for example), or by donating to charity through the Coinstar Cares program.

Although the machine tallied my haul as $76.91, I left with $66 in cash — a lot more than I had in my wallet when I started.

Lesson 4: Amazon is efficient and affordable, yet predictably impersonal

Before my cash experiment, I made a significant portion of my household purchases on Amazon. Running low on vitamins or toilet paper usually involved a few taps on my phone and waiting for packages to appear within days, or even hours.

Switching to in-person shopping changed more than my spending habits. It changed my daily interactions.

I started asking cashiers whether customers still pay with cash. Most said no. One laughed and said, “Weirdly, yes!” Others seemed confused by my enthusiasm for small talk about payment methods.

What surprised me most was how much I enjoyed these interactions. Paying in cash slowed transactions enough to create space for eye contact, brief conversation and, occasionally, jokes about dwindling coin supplies. While I sometimes paid a little more by shopping at brick-and-mortar stores, the sense of connection felt worth it.

Macksoud says such experiences can be valuable. “It’s not just the item we buy, it’s the full experience of spending,” she explains. “Touching products, interacting with people and being present during the purchase can create more satisfaction than clicking ‘buy now.’”

Lesson 5: Some businesses offer financial incentives if you pay with cash

Many businesses still encourage cash payments.

Several merchants told me that credit card processing fees, which typically range from 1.5 to 3.5 percent, significantly cut into their profits. Some businesses pass those costs on to customers, and not always transparently.

The nail salon I frequent charges customers an extra 3 percent fee for paying with a credit card before taxes are applied.

Lesson 6: Loyalty rewards are less free than they feel

One of the hardest adjustments during my experiment was losing access to rewards programs. No Starbucks stars. No airline miles. No rideshare points. With every transaction, I felt like I was forfeiting tiny future luxuries.

But loyalty rewards programs can be a double-edged sword, Macksoud warns, in that they create a subtle spending trap. “We’re addicted to points,” she says. “That’s the carrot they dangle. By the time you factor in transaction fees and extra spending to earn rewards, you’ve often paid for the ‘free’ coffee.”

I experienced this dynamic firsthand. Without reward incentives, I found myself weighing purchases more carefully. Did I really want that latte, or was my eye on the elusive one that I’d get for free after buying 10 of them?

Lesson 7: Digital transactions make it easier to hit “buy” on pricey items

Perhaps the most dramatic change I noticed over the month was how paying in cash reshaped my impulse-buying habits.

Without credit cards or digital wallets, late-night scrolling became less financially risky. Instead of immediately purchasing items advertised on social media that I suddenly had to have, I implemented a strategy: When something caught my eye, I opened the ad in my browser, emailed it to myself and filed it under the label “Buy Me, Maybe.”

By the end of January, I’d amassed dozens of unread emails, and my bank account was noticeably healthier. I estimate I saved several hundred dollars by postponing purchases long enough to lose interest in them.

Perhaps that’s no surprise, though, considering that research shows digital payments can create emotional distance from spending, making purchases feel less consequential.

Alex Belli, a senior lecturer in marketing at the University of Melbourne in Australia, studies the “cashless effect,” in which consumers tend to spend more when using digital payment methods.

“Because cash is finite, it will dictate the maximum amount you can spend,” Belli says. “Having a specific amount of cash in your wallet can act as a form of financial self-control.”

His research shows that people may spend more when making status-related purchases like branded clothing or designer sunglasses using cashless payments, where the psychological friction of spending is lower.

The bigger picture: A rapidly changing payment landscape

Cash usage continues to decline. According to the Federal Reserve’s 2025 Diary of Consumer Payment Choice survey, cash accounted for just 14 percent of U.S. consumer payments in 2024, compared to 35 percent for credit cards and 30 percent for debit cards.

One reason credit card usage continues to climb is the rewards points or cash back that many cards offer. A 2025 American Bankers Association survey conducted by Morning Consult found that 4 in 5 Americans have at least one credit card that offers rewards. Whether you receive 5 percent cash back for buying groceries, 3 percent for gassing up or 2 percent for dining, those savings accumulate over time.

But keep in mind that credit cards aren’t as altruistic as they appear. If you fail to make monthly payments, you’ll pay interest on the balance. That’s money you could be socking away for a rainy day or investing in timeless clothing items. And as of early March, the average variable interest rate was an eye-popping 19.58 percent, according to Bankrate.

Mobile payments are becoming increasingly popular. An estimated 65.6 million Americans currently use Apple Pay, a figure projected to reach approximately 84 million by 2030, according to Capital One Shopping research.

Still, experts caution against abandoning cash completely. Belli suggests carrying a modest amount of cash as a budgeting tool. “If you’re going out for coffee, maybe $10 is enough,” he says. “If you’re grocery shopping, $100 to $150 might be appropriate. Cash naturally limits spending.”

Macksoud encourages occasional cash experiments for anyone curious about their financial habits. “If people spend a week or month using cash, they often recognize the true cost of running their lives,” she says.

Would I do it again?

Living on cash wasn’t convenient. It required planning, patience and a noticeably heavier wallet. But the effort definitely paid off in other ways.

I became more aware of where my money was going, and more intentional about how I spent it. I supported local businesses more frequently. And I experienced brief yet meaningful interactions that rarely occur during digital transactions.

Most importantly, I gained clarity about which purchases genuinely improved my life and which were simply force of habit, like subscribe-and-save paper products from Amazon or the irresistible end-of-season sale items (“up to 70 percent off!”) that I often hang in my closet and forget about by the following year.

Will I give up credit cards entirely? Probably not. They remain useful for travel, fraud protection and large purchases. And, oh, how those rewards add up over time! A few years ago, my husband and I flew premium economy to Thailand using miles earned from our travel credit card.

But I now view cash less as a nostalgic relic and more as a tool that helps me be more mindful of my spending decisions and more connected to my money, my choices and my community. That feels like a strong way to start the year.

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