3. Evaluate style and comfort
You can’t possibly look good when your new jeans make seam dents down your legs, your beautiful bra and heavy hobo bag leave grooves in your shoulders and your chic-as-can-be flats hurt. Comfort is no longer negotiable or a separate category of clothes for lazy days watching Netflix on the couch. We demand it for work, dinner out or and even for a party. Not feeling comfortable in our clothes fuels the urge to shop. Sometimes you need to buy a few essentials to save money in the end. For everyday bliss try a pair of go-with-everything cushioned flats like the Naturalizer Vivienne Ballet Flat in Vintage Mauve ($80, famousfootwear.com); a support bra with soft convertible straps like the Bali One Smooth U Ultra Light T-Shirt Bra in Cinnamon Butter, Black or Nude ($48, barenecessities.com); a light cross-body bag like the SG Sugu Katie Lightweight Crossbody Bag in Black, Khaki or Stone ($27, amazon.com); and soft, roomy jeans like the Croft & Barrow Plus Size Pull-On Girlfriend Jeans in Medium Wash, Dark Wash or Black ($44, kohls.com).
(Left to right) NYX Professional Makeup Ultimate Shadow Palette; Maybelline Eye Studio Nudes of New York; Revlon ColorStay Matte Lite Crayon in Clear The Air; Neutrogena Moisture Smooth Color Stick in Pink Nude
Walgreens (3); Target
4. New makeup may do the trick
Clothes are not always the answer. In fact, you can buy all the clothes you want and still not look better if your look neck up is downright dated or unflattering. For some women, finally finding the right haircut helps them look better without the need to shop around. For others, a batch of fresh eyeshadows and lipsticks is enough of a reset to resist breaking the budget. Take two photos of you in the same everyday outfit. In one do your hair and makeup, in the other none. See what I mean! Updated neutrals — like the NYX Professional Makeup Ultimate Shadow Palette ($18, walgreens.com), Maybelline Eye Studio Nudes of New York ($12, walgreens.com), Neutrogena Moisture Smooth Color Stick in Pink Nude or Berry Brown ($7 each, target.com) and Revlon ColorStay Matte Lite Crayon in Clear The Air or Take Flight ($12 each, walgreens.com) — flatter all.
(Left to right) A New Day Women’s Smocked Waist Mid-Rise A-Line Skirt in Brown ($28, target.com); Old Navy High-Waisted Linen-Blend Wide-Leg Pants for Women in Black Jack ($35, oldnavy.gap.com); Vince Camuto for Dia & Co Jayda Flutter Sleeve Blouse in Deep Fuchsia ($89, dia.com); Chico’s Gauze Button Down Top in Haute Pink ($59, chicos.com)
Target; Old Navy; Dia & Co; Chico's
5. Splurge where you need it, save where you don’t
A very famous celebrity (now way over 50) known for her curvy hourglass shape once told me she buys designer pants and cheap tops because spending only on problem areas made sense. Know what? It still does. However, you don’t need to follow the diva’s advice to the letter. Simply buy new tops or bottoms (not necessarily pricey ones!), depending on which area is your big beef. Scout the clearance category or aisle first (this is where you’ll find the choice leftovers); then proceed to the sales racks; and finally, if you must, pay full price.
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6. Know when enough is enough
We’re all watching every penny these days, but shopping remains a guilty pleasure. In a way it’s our version of the video games teens play ... and just as addictive. We get to try on clothes way beyond our means, navigate the fashion maze and compete for prices on various sites. Shopping for fun (no purchase) and shopping for real are two different things. Here are the four signals to hit delete from your shopping cart, leave it in the dressing room or get a return shipping label and drop it off. 1. You think, Maybe with my red shoes. Decoded this means the item is too boring and needs something to lift it out of its misery. Say no. 2. With Spanx it will be fine. Do your self-esteem a favor and look again. 3. Is it too young for me? This is another way of saying yes, it is. You don’t need to ask twice. 4. I already have something like this, I think. Yes, and it never comes out of the closet, which is why you’re shopping for a replacement. You can’t keep making the same shopping mistakes and expect a new answer.
(Left to right) Croft & Barrow Boatneck Top in Pine Teal Van Stripe; Sonoma Goods for Life Drop-Shoulder Blouse in Navy Indigo Quilt; Liz Claiborne Women’s Plus Short Sleeve Floral A-Line Dress in Sig Navy Palms
Kohl's (2); JCPenney
7. Stay with your color group
Shopping lower down the fashion chain can be overwhelming. One sure thing helps: You can’t go wrong with prints or stripes. They camouflage inexpensive fabrics and imperfect construction we can’t see in photos. Stick to simple contemporary styles; for example, an A-line dress like the Liz Claiborne Women’s Plus Short Sleeve Floral A-Line Dress in Sig Navy Palms ($74, jcpenney.com), blouses with puff sleeves like the Sonoma Goods for Life Drop-Shoulder Blouse in Navy Indigo Quilt ($36, kohls.com) and boatneck tees like the Croft & Barrow Boatneck Top in Teal Large Stripe, Pink Large Stripe or Pine Teal Van Stripe ($15–$20, kohls.com). Look for prints that sync the colors to your dominant wardrobe colors — like I did here with all blue prints — to build your signature style.
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