Plus-Size Fashion Tips With a Body-Positive Attitude

The other option is creating a tonal head-to-toe look by combining colors (even black!) with others of the same or nearly the same depth or intensity. Think: dark top with dark bottom; light top with light bottom. The key here is to avoid a sharp contrast — like a white top with black pants — so the vertical effect continues.

You might wear black pants like, the Ava & Viv Women’s High-Rise Straight Leg Pull On Pants in Black ($35, target.com), with a deep burgundy, deep olive or chocolate brown sweater, like Talbots Plus Size Turtleneck Sweater in Eggplant or Burnt Olive ($109, talbots.com). How to tell if it’s working? Squint at your outfit in a full-length mirror. If the colors seem to blur together without a big difference in color separation, it’s a success!

(From left) Cacique Intimates Comfort Bliss Lightly Lined No-Wire Bra in Deep Taupe; Jockey’s Women’s Skimmies 360 Tummy Smoothing Brief 3-Pack in Light/Ivory/Light; Glamorise Women’s Full Figure Plus Size Wonderwire Front Close Bra 1245 in Café.

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3. Wear bras and underwear that help your clothes.

Many women with a body-positive attitude are thinking about tossing their shapewear and underwire bras. They say, “No more compression. No more big bras. I’m all about comfort now.” My take? Flattery still counts.

Save the soft bralettes and lacy bikini panties for home, and the industrial-strength shapewear for special events, but still choose everyday bras and underwear that improve the way your clothes look. The perfect duo: a bra that’s got enough oomph and lift, like the Glamorise Women’s Full Figure Plus Size Wonderwire Front Close Bra 1245 in Cafe ($62, macys.com), Cacique Intimates Comfort Bliss Lightly Lined No-Wire Bra in Botanical Gardens Border Tap Shoe (a dark floral) to Black, Deep Taupe and Cafe Mocha ($31, lanebryant.com) or the Soma Vanishing Back Full Coverage Bra in Clay Rose ($60, soma.com), which comes in band sizes 32 to 42, cups B to G, with smooth underwire cups and adjustable straps, with a pair of seamless high-waist panties with a little hold, like Jockey’s Women’s Skimmies 360 Tummy Smoothing Brief 3 Pack in Black or Light/Ivory/Light ($36, target.com). Whether you’re a size 14/16, 2X, 34C or 38G, a workout fan or not,  breast size and shape continue to change with age. Give your body all the love and attention it deserves.

(From left) Style & Co Women’s Plus Size Envelope Neckline Tunic Sweater in Deep Cranberry; Agnes Orinda Plus Size Women’s Long Sleeve Open Front Cardigan in Dark Green.

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4. Make tunics, cardigans and knit jackets your backup team.

Even the most positive attitude wobbles now and then. That’s OK! But it’s important to have a plan for days when the scale reveals new pounds, you’re feeling bloated after a salt or cocktail binge, you’re fatigued or you feel flabby and want some camouflage.

A few stylish pieces that whoosh over the torso and belly and gently frame hips and thighs are your best friends. Count on long tunic shirts and sweaters like Style & Co Women’s Plus Size Envelope Neckline Tunic Sweater in Deep Cranberry or Ponderosa Pine ($60, macys.com) for coverage; tailored knit blazers like Nic + Zoe Plus Women’s Knit Blazer in Black Mix or Dark Indigo ($198, nordstrom.com) for gentle structure; or thigh-length cardigans like Agnes Orinda Plus Size Women’s Long Sleeve Open Front Cardigan in Gray, Black or Dark Green ($48–$51, target.com) to save the day … or week. Pretend you never heard the words belt or tucked in. Many plus-size women decide they love this way of dressing so much that it becomes their all-the-time look for both casual and dressy attire.

(From left) Old Navy Women’s High-Waisted Billie Wide-Leg Trouser in Navy Stripe; Eloquii Seam Detail Ponte Work Dress in Rich Navy; Simply Vera Vera Wang Plus Size Dolman Sleeve Snap Sweater in Midnight Army.

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5. Treat your body to body-friendly clothes.

Here’s a mistake many plus-size women make. They fight their body’s tendency toward rounded curves with clothes that don’t go with the flow. Women with generously-shaped bodies can now find the fashion trends their slimmer-bodied peers wear, but should still stay selective. Choose pieces that embrace your shape and make it an asset.

Look for tops and sweaters with dropped shoulders, wide, dolman or raglan sleeves, peplums or lengthening necklines like Vs and boatnecks — all are in sync with full upper bodies. The strategically roomy Simply Vera Vera Wang Plus Size Dolman Sleeve Snap Sweater in Dark Gray Fox Heather, Midnight Army or Port Royale ($30, kohls.com) suits a full bust and wide upper arms. Fit-and-flare-style dresses like the Eloquii Seam Detail Ponte Work Dress in Cabernet, Rich Navy or Gray Heather ($66, eloquii.com) follow the lines of generous curves, and tailored wide-leg pull-on pants like Old Navy Women’s High-Waisted Billie Wide-Leg Trouser in Navy Stripe, Black Jack, Original Gray or Tan ($36, oldnavy.gap.com) offer a glam look that won’t pinch at the waist but rather ease over your seat, thighs and legs with a hint of stretch.

(From left) Lands’ End Women’s Plus Size Recover High Rise Straight Leg Blue Jeans in Indigo Tide Blue; Levi’s Trendy Plus Size Classic Straight Leg Jeans in Soft Black; Croft & Barrow Women’s Plus Size Classic Pull-On Jeans in Dark Wash.

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6. Wear plus where you need it.

My clients ask, “Do I need a plus size?”

Sizing depends on your personal proportions and where your extra weight has settled. Every generously-shaped body is different. Is your weight primarily in your bust and/or waist and belly area? Or is it below the waist in your hips, thighs and derriere?

You may feel better in a plus-size top that’s designed for extra room at the bosom, but wear a regular size 14 on the bottom (or vice versa). Plus-size brands and retailers use a variety of numbering systems, which can be confusing. You might be a 16 or a 16W in numerical sizes (the “W” is for “Woman” and indicates a curvier size 16) or a 1X size, which starts at 0 or 1X and can go to 4X or more.

The difference between a regular size 16 and a plus-size 16W is that the latter is cut to accommodate volume, curves and shape at key fit points like shoulders, bust, waist and hips. Use a tape measure to get your current bust, waist and hip dimensions in inches before shopping online. Just about every shopping website has a size measurement chart that can simplify any size dilemmas.

One of the most difficult fits for plus-size women is in jeans. Improved classic straight-leg designs, such as Lands’ End Women’s Plus Size Recover High Rise Straight Leg Blue Jeans in Indigo Tide Blue ($49, landsend.com; available in sizes 16W28 to 26W32); Levi’s Trendy Plus Size Classic Straight Leg Jeans in Soft Black ($42, macys.com; sizes 16W to 26W); and Croft & Barrow Women’s Plus Size Classic Pull-On Jeans in Medium Wash or Dark Wash ($26, kohls.com; sizes 0X to 5X) offer contoured waistbands, stretch and versatility for pairing with any top, sweater or jacket, day or night.

(From left) Lands’ End Women’s Plus Size Drapey Rib Fitted Long Sleeve Henley T-Shirt in Rich Ginger Brown; Lane Bryant Rib Faux-Wrap Midi Dress in Burnt Henna; A New Day Women’s Relaxed Trench Coat in Tan; Nine West Women’s Plus Size Ponte Pencil Skirt in Mineral Black.

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7. Try formfitting clothes for a body-positive statement.

This one’s for the gutsy women among us who are ready for a fashion challenge. After years of hiding their shape, more plus-size women are proudly displaying their curves. The easiest way to get started is to let opposites attract. Try a fitted top, like the Lands’ End Women’s Plus Size Drapey Rib Fitted Long Sleeve Henley T-Shirt in Ivory/Black Stripe or Rich Ginger Brown ($33, landsend.com), with a fuller-cut bottom piece, like wide-leg pants or an A-line skirt. Or pair a slim knit pull-on skirt such as Nine West Women’s Plus Size Ponte Pencil Skirt in Mineral Black or Maddie Plum ($26, kohls.com) with relaxed, chunky or wide sweaters. Midi dresses with a wrap silhouette, like the Lane Bryant Rib Faux-Wrap Midi Dress in Burnt Henna ($51, lanebryant.com), are another option. They provide instant waist definition to balance a shape that’s voluptuous on top and bottom. Finally, add a curve-conscious trench coat like A New Day Women’s Relaxed Trench Coat in Tan ($50, target.com) to your list. Slip it over every outfit, knot the belt to emphasize your shape, and feel supermodel chic … at every size.