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Wendie Malick: ‘I Was a Late Bloomer’
The actress, 75, on her late launch, her human and canine families — and the prospect of a very long life
Wendie Malick is the first actor to warn me that I’d smell like donkey for the rest of the day. Then she took me to the back of her house on the ridge looking over the Pacific Ocean to introduce me to said donkey, Luca, and her two horses, a mustang named Stuart and a buckskin quarter horse, Cassidy.
Malick — who features in Apple TV’s Shrinking (now in its third season) alongside Harrison Ford and Jason Segel — is perhaps best remembered for her role in the sitcom Just Shoot Me! (1997-2003), which garnered her two Emmy nominations. But she has been working steadily for decades, including at 75 as one of the stars, alongside Lea Thompson, of the Hallmark Channel’s The Chicken Sisters.
Though she loves to travel for work, Malick, a former model, recharges on this 50-acre estate on the edge of Los Angeles. It is peaceful and secure: The dirt roads leading to the eco-friendly house her husband built are filled with “No Trespassing” signs. “It’s my sanctuary,” she says. “When I’m in nature, I never feel alone. I feel like these are all my friends — the trees, the critters, all of it.” As hawks circled overhead and her preternaturally chill coonhound Sutter settled nearby, we talked about where Malick’s been and what she’s up to now.
She started modeling late
I was in the Broadway ticket booth in Times Square, and a modeling agent came up and said I’d be good for the Wilhelmina agency. At Wilhelmina, a woman asked, “How old are you?” I said, “25.” She said, “Two things: Never tell anybody you’re that old. And practice smiling in the mirror because you have a crooked smile.” I didn’t change my smile and I didn’t lie about my age. But she took me on anyway.
She loves loves loves animals
My best friends have always been dogs. My older sister, Bonnie, was a Collie. She was by my side all the time. My parents could leave me in a playpen with the dog nearby and just ignore me. I’m also pretty good with horses and miniature donkeys, but dog is my first language.
Her ancestral timing has been a wonder
My grandmother left Pennsylvania at 19 and went to Egypt as a missionary. My grandfather was a Coptic Christian there. They fell in love and came back together on the last successful voyage of the Lusitania before it was torpedoed by a German sub.
She didn’t get her big acting break until 39
That was Dream On, an HBO comedy that centered on a divorced book editor in Manhattan. It was the first time people realized I was funny.
She met her husband, Richard, on a church trip
After my first marriage ended, a friend suggested I join this group from Brentwood Presbyterian Church to build houses for poor people in Mexico. I got down there and the guy who was the foreman was this interesting, tall blond guy. By the end of that weekend, he’d asked me if I wanted to learn how to ride a motorcycle and go to Africa with him the following summer.
She became a parent at 55
My daughter is technically my niece. We adopted her. She has lived with us since she was 5. When I would do things at her school, I realized that I could be the mother of every mother there! I don’t think any of us realize how selfish we are until children come into our lives. It’s like suddenly, “My God, this creature is expecting to be fed three times a day.”
She rode with her daughter to school on a horse
I did that for four years right here in Topanga. I said to her, “Someday you’re going to look back on this time in your life and realize it was pretty OK.”
Her home is her castle
It’s my sanctuary. When I’m in nature, I never feel alone. I feel like these are all my friends — the trees, the critters, all of it.
She voiced a character with dementia on BoJack Horseman
To let her go into her dementia was just such an interesting thing for me because I had older people in my life who were starting to experience that. How all of the walls came down, and she was like a little girl again. It was one of the most heartbreaking characters I’ve ever played, and so rewarding—it made me more compassionate.
Betty White gave her hope
The best thing about starring in Hot in Cleveland with Betty White was when she turned 90 as I turned 61. I looked at the breadth of her career, and I thought, I could have a third act ahead of me. My parents lived to 94 and 101, so I thought I could have 30 more years. I want to do this until I can’t do it anymore.
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