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If you’re caring for a parent or other adult relative, you might be able to get paid for your time and effort. You also might qualify for certain tax breaks.
The key is being able to claim the person you’re caring for as a dependent on your federal income tax return. That’s not a given — there are several requirements that must be satisfied. But if you can check all the boxes, you could be looking at hundreds or even thousands of dollars in tax savings.
Who qualifies as an adult dependent?
A dependent can either be a “qualifying child” or a “qualifying relative.” Different rules apply for each type. Adult dependents generally fall under the qualifying relative category.
You must pass the following seven tests for an adult to be considered a qualifying relative. If you meet all seven requirements, you can claim the adult as a dependent on your tax return and qualify for certain tax breaks.
1. Dependent taxpayer test
To pass this test, you can’t be claimed as a dependent on someone else’s tax return. If you’re married and filing a joint tax return, your spouse can’t be someone else’s dependent, either.
One exception: You can still pass the test if the person who claims you (or your spouse) as a dependent only files a tax return to get a refund of income tax withheld or estimated taxes paid during the tax year.
2. Joint return test
Typically you can check this box if the adult you’re supporting claims any filing status on their own tax return other than “married filing jointly.”
This requirement is also satisfied if a joint return is filed solely to claim a refund of taxes paid or withheld.
3. Citizen or resident test
You’ll clear this hurdle if the adult you’re supporting:
- is a U.S. citizen.
- is what the IRS terms a "resident alien," meaning the individual has lawful permanent residency (also known as a green card) or has been physically present in the U.S. for at least 31 days during the tax year and 183 days during the three-year period that includes the current tax year and the two preceding years.
- is a U.S. national — someone who is not a citizen but who owes allegiance to the U.S. (for example, American Samoans and Northern Mariana Islanders who chose to become U.S. nationals instead of citizens).
- is a resident of Canada or Mexico.
4. Qualifying child test
Although a qualifying relative can be any age, a person can’t be a qualifying relative if they can also be claimed as a qualifying child by you or anyone else. A qualifying child is someone who meets first three tests described above and:
- Is your child (biological or adopted), stepchild, foster child, sibling, half-sibling, step-sibling or a descendant of any of these relatives.
- Is either 18 or younger at the end of the tax year, 23 or younger and a student at the end of the tax year, or any age if they have a permanent and total disability.
- Lived with you for more than half of the tax year.
- Did not provide more than half of their own financial support for the tax year.
5. Member of household or relationship test
There are two ways to satisfy this requirement. The adult you’re supporting can either live with you for the entire tax year (or until their death) as a member of your household or be one of the following types of relatives:
- Your child (including an adopted child), stepchild, foster child or a descendant of any of these (such as your grandchild).
- Your brother, sister, half-sibling, stepbrother or stepsister.
- Your father, mother, grandparent or other direct ancestor (but not your foster parent).
- Your stepfather or stepmother.
- Your niece or nephew (including a son or daughter of a half-sibling).
- Your aunt or uncle.
- Your son-in-law, daughter-in-law, father-in-law, mother-in-law, brother-in-law or sister-in-law.
If you’re married and file a joint tax return, the person you’re supporting can be related to either you or your spouse in one of these ways. Note, however, that your spouse can’t be your qualifying relative.
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