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When we were a young family, my husband worked 10-hour days, often picking up extra time in the evenings and on weekends. I worked part-time while raising our children, and I dreamed of the day we’d retire.
However, as we approached our retirement years, we were still struggling with our finances, particularly after the company my husband worked for folded and he found himself unemployed at 60. Jobs for an aging landscaper were scarce — most employers prefer hiring younger people to do the strenuous work.
But my husband persevered and, at 62, found his dream job as a maintenance supervisor at an upscale condo just blocks from our home. He loved his new job, but the plan was to retire when he turned 67 so we could buy an RV and travel. I was working remotely, and since I could work from anywhere in the world with internet access, his retirement would not affect my job.
However, when my husband reached 67, he was still working full-time outdoors in the brutal Southern heat, in a job that demands physical strength and endurance.
I was concerned about his health. New pains disrupted his life, aggravating his herniated discs, arthritis and sciatica. But he refused to quit, claiming that we still needed the additional income. Sure, the extra money helps, but it’s been difficult watching him struggle physically. He groans in pain each morning getting out of bed, and limps through the front door after a day at work.
We finally came up with a compromise after buying our first travel trailer: My husband agreed to work part-time, with the flexibility to take time off for RV travel.
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