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Hot flashes affect roughly 80 percent of women during menopause, bringing sudden and intense waves of heat that can disrupt sleep and derail focus at work. It’s no wonder, then, that they are the number one menopausal symptom that drives women to seek treatment.
Termed “vasomotor symptoms” in the medical literature, hot flashes can start before menopause or right around the time that menopause begins, which is defined as a year after a woman’s last period, says Dr. JoAnn Pinkerton, division director for Midlife Health at the University of Virginia and past president of the Menopause Society. On average, women experience them for about seven years.
Both hormonal and nonhormonal prescription treatments can reduce the frequency and severity of hot flashes. But there are still some things you can do in the moment to reduce their intensity. Here’s a look at three things experts say can help you manage a hot flash.
1. Keep it cool
Controlling a room’s temperature is an ideal way to cope with a hot flash. That’s why Pinkerton recommends keeping the bedroom cool at night.
“I’m always saying, ‘Please let the menopausal woman win the temperature battles in the bedroom.’ Because you can do a cooling blanket and a heating blanket. You can have a bed topper where one side is cooling and one side isn’t,” she says.
However, at work, it’s not always easy to control the thermostat, Pinkerton says. In that case, you can keep a small fan on your desk or even put one around your neck. “The more expensive ones have a cooler in them,” she says, likening them to “an air conditioner around your neck.”
Cooling wristbands are another option. One such device, the Embr Wave, is a bracelet that delivers both heating and cooling with the touch of a button (it can also be controlled by an app). Speaking on a panel at the 2025 Menopause Society Conference, Janet Carpenter, interim dean and distinguished professor at the Indiana University School of Nursing and a leading expert on hot flashes and their treatment, said that small studies have shown the Embr to be effective.
For instance, a 2021 randomized study of 39 women ages 45 to 58 who experienced hot flashes at night found that when they wore the device for two weeks, they reported both better sleep and more “perceived control” over their sleep disruptions than when they didn’t wear the bracelet. The women also reported better functioning during the day. (The study, which appeared in the journal Behavioral Sleep Medicine, was funded by Johnson & Johnson. Other studies of the device without industry funding have also shown it to be effective.)
That sense of control matters because previous research has shown that perceived control over hot flashes makes them less distressing and increases women’s well-being.
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