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The Interior World of Jodie Foster: ‘You Give a Lot as an Actor’

On the eve of the release of her latest film, ‘A Private Life,’ the Oscar winner reflects on her past


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Jodie Foster sits straight-backed and composed, with the graceful posture of a dancer, as she recalls one of the most traumatic moments of her life.

It was May 1976, on the eve of the Festival de Cannes premiere of Taxi Driver — the film that would earn Foster the first of her five Oscar nominations the following year. Before jetting off to France for the fete, “my puppy, he was a little guy,” she says, “went careening down these very slick steps and hit a wall. His whole skull exploded into blood right in front of me.”

That horror, she goes on to explain, and what followed would have a lifelong effect on the then-13-year-old actor. She locked herself in the bathroom and wondered, as critics hailed her breakthrough performance in the film, if she’d unknowingly struck a Faustian bargain.

“I had a whole internal thing that I had to give up the thing I loved most to get [this success],” she says, shaking her head. “It was like Amélie, total magical thinking about how powerful I was. What a sad, sad moment. I didn’t talk to my mother about it, or anyone.”

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Jodie Foster in 'A Private Life' ('Vie Privée').
George Lechaptois

Foster, 63, shares this recently unearthed memory in the context of her new film, the French thriller A Private Life (Vie privée), which screened at the Toronto International Film Festival in September. In the Hitchcockian drama, she plays Lilian Steiner, an American psychoanalyst living in Paris and trying to unravel the mysterious death of a patient.

But more importantly, she points out, the film is about the painful traumas we bury and hide from ourselves.

“Lilian thinks she’s solving a mystery,” Foster says, “but the truth is, the entire path she takes is about her turning around in a circle so that she can see sides of herself she was unwilling to see.”

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(From left) Anthony Hopkins, Jodie Foster in The Silence of the Lambs, 1991.
Orion Pictures Corp/Everett Collection

Like her character, Foster — a two-time best actress Oscar winner (for 1989’s The Accused and 1992’s The Silence of the Lambs) and director — is drawn to examining interior worlds: her characters’ and her own.

She’s been doing it since she began modeling at 3 (most memorably in a Coppertone commercial with a puppy pulling at her swimsuit) and acting in early ’70s television (as Danny’s admirer on The Partridge Family) and Disney movies (the original Freaky Friday).

More than precocious, she was like an adult in a kid’s body. Her favorite film growing up? Dog Day Afternoon.

A role in Martin Scorsese’s Alice Doesn’t Live Here Anymore (1974) as a streetwise, shoplifting tween may have led the director to cast her as Iris, the child sex worker in Taxi Driver. Before she could take the role, though, she had to pass a four-hour interview with a psychologist to prove she was “sane enough,” she says.

Good thing she’d already learned the kind of compartmentalizing “survival skills” and boundaries required to navigate such experiences, she says.

“I’m grateful that my mom loved me and wanted to protect my psyche,” she says. “She taught me how to be careful with what I gave out. You give a lot as an actor. I gave my whole life. I mean, from the time I was 3 years old, I’ve given my entire life, everything that I had, I gave. If I wanted to survive, there were areas that people just weren’t going to have.”

Foster’s connection to France and the French language also began early, offering her a different lens to see and understand herself in the world. At 9, she entered the Lycée Français de Los Angeles, where she grew up speaking French daily. She has spoken French on camera before, but A Private Life is the first time the language carries most of her performance.

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(From Left) Jodie Foster and Daniel Auteuil in 'A Private Life' ('Vie Privée').
George Lechaptois

“That was a huge challenge,” she admits. “It took at least a month of me just going to France and not talking to anybody in English and diving in.”

Which brings her to a disclosure that is both baffling and a little funny, even to her.

“I’m a different person when I speak French,” she says. “My voice is higher. I’m not as confident. I feel like I’m going to make a mistake at any moment, so it makes me worried, anxious. I don’t feel like the grounded person that I am when I speak English, and there’s something interesting about that because it’s so different from who I am in America.”

Married to photographer-filmmaker Alexandra Hedison since 2014 and mother to sons Charlie, 27, a scientist, and Kit, 24, an actor, Foster keeps an apartment in France but mostly lives in Los Angeles, where she prefers a life of quiet routine and order.

“Every night before I go to bed,” she says, “I put out my clothes for the next day. I’ve done that every single day of my life — even if it’s just sweats for the gym. I don’t like to waste time. I want to be economical.”

Another form of compartmentalizing, no doubt. But despite all her self-awareness, it’s only now, in her 60s, that she feels a new clarity — hard won after a turbulent decade.

“My 50s were hard,” she says. “I felt like a failure. I kept thinking I was supposed to do something meaningful and hadn’t done it. I felt like I couldn’t live up to my own potential — like I couldn’t compete with my younger self.”

But her work told another story.

As the director for early episodes of House of Cards and Orange Is the New Black, she helped define prestige streaming TV. Returning to the screen in The Mauritanian (2021), Foster won a Golden Globe for her performance as real-life defense attorney Nancy Hollander fighting to free a Guantánamo detainee.

And then, “I turned 60,” says Foster, “and it was like a light bulb went off in my head. Everything changed. I was like, ‘Yeah, I don’t care. I’m no longer tortured by any of this. I don’t know why I seemed to care so much.’ ”

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(From left) Annette Bening as Diana Nyad, and Jodie Foster in Nyad, 2023.
Kimberley French/Netflix/Everett Collection

Her 60s have already brought Nyad, True Detective: Night Country and a fresh wave of award recognition.

Films may not heal all wounds, but Foster still believes in what they can do.

“Movies can help people ask questions,” she says, “and help people put themselves in other people’s shoes. Hopefully, in a moment where cruelty is the new currency, they promote empathy.”

She pauses, thinks for a beat, then adds:

“I think movies can make us better people. That’s really been my objective all along — how can I be a better person?”

About Movies for Grownups

AARP’s advocacy work includes fighting ageism in Hollywood and encouraging the entertainment industry to tap into the unique perspectives and talents that actors, writers and producers who are 50 or older bring to their work. AARP’s annual Movies for Grownups Awards, telecast on PBS, celebrates the achievements of the 50-plus community in film and television. View this year’s nominees here.

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