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Key takeaways
- Many women buy shoes they love but don’t wear because they don’t work with most outfits.
- Choosing one shoe color and varying styles helps you pack lighter and dress smarter.
- Updated flats, sandals and sneakers can refresh classic, casual and comfort-first wardrobes.
“I always pack too many shoes when I travel.”
“Which shoes look good with pants, dresses and skirts?”
“Should I just stick with goes-with-anything black?”
“Which shoes give classic clothes an update?”
Shoes are an emotional purchase.
Women say, “I love these! I’m getting them!” They never say, “I don’t need more ballet flats” or “Are gold shoes a good idea for daytime?” Yet many of the shoes that jam their closet floors and shoe racks don’t really work with most of their clothes. Some keep “skirt” and “pant” shoes separate, or draw a line between day and night shoes, casual and dressy, and “save” pairs for the right outfit. And forget packing for a trip! Women always regret adding too many shoes. How do I know? I’m a fashion editor and personal shopper for women over 50 who helps clients avoid buying shoes that don’t make sense for their wardrobes. Here are the 7 most common problems — and the 2026 spring/summer solutions.
1. “I want to pack do-more-with-less shoes.”
Trips and vacations are a shoe-lover’s nightmare. The dilemma: How to cram more pairs than you’ll ever need into a carry-on … and still have room for clothes? Sounds crazy? Not if you like to be prepared for a last-minute change of plans, or an outfit switcheroo.
My rule: Stick to one color for shoes, limit the packing to three (a total of four), and vary the styles. One example of this minimalist formula is to pack an enclosed flat — a loafer or a ballet style, like the Vionic Women’s Caroll Ballet Flat in Black Leather ($135, dsw.com); a low wedge or kitten heel like J.Crew Women’s Double-Strap Kitten Heels in Italian Leather in Black ($168, jcrew.com) for a leggy lift day or night; and a flat sandal, like Crocs Women’s Miami Toe Loop Sandal in Black ($40, dsw.com) — this one’s waterproof so it doubles as a pool shoe — plus sneakers like the Quince Women Italian Leather & Suede Low Profile Sneaker in Black ($94, quince.com) to wear en route for travel and workouts. Sneakers tend to be the heaviest, so avoid packing them, and skip substantial wedges — the 2-inch cork kind — for trips.
The black-shoe scenario might be great with a packed wardrobe of cool-toned black, white and red. Are you more of a brown/tan shoes fan? Just edit the clothes to white or beige/tan and add a warm pop of color like vibrant coral or olive green. Having shoes in the same color with different styles makes quick changes easy — and often a shoe swap is all you need to go from casual to dressy.
2. “I’m in my only-comfy-flats era.”
Some women over 50 have let go of heels for good. Even mini block heels, kitten heels and low wedges don’t put a gleam in their eye. Perhaps it is the ability to walk fast on gravel, grass or pavement; drive for hours without arch pain; and spend hours standing on their tootsies at work, running errands or spending a day of sightseeing without complaint that is enough incentive.
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