9 Quick Questions for Mary McCormack

You’ve done two Broadway productions — Boeing-Boeing, which earned you a Tony nomination — and Cabaret. Would you like to act on Broadway again?

I wish I could do more. Unfortunately, you have to do a six-month commitment. The last time I did it, my kids [now ages 18, 16 and 11] were still small enough to travel. Once they started schools that mattered, I couldn’t really pick up and leave L.A. I didn’t want their friendships and their teams and their grades and all of it to sort of go off the rails. So we just stayed put.

What’s your go-to TV show of the moment?

We’re [watching Bravo’s] Below Deck. I know I should be watching The Bear and Heels Season 1 to prep for Heels Season 2, but my middle daughter and I right now are deep — neck-deep — in Below Deck.

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When our conversation began, it sounded like you were multitasking?

I was doing dishes and trying to get to a quiet place in my house so I could actually talk to you. Remember before cellphones? Now, we have to be functioning at all times. At red lights, I’m rescheduling a piano lesson —  even [at] red lights, there’s no time to just be. My oldest daughter, she was traveling, and her phone broke in the last few days while she was away. And she came home and she was like, “I just read three novels in three days. It’s so wonderful.” It’s the joy of a broken phone.

If you could take a day off from work, dishes and multitasking, what would you be doing?

I love a garage sale. I like a treasure hunt. I’m not looking for one thing.  A good day off would be having my whole family in one house, which for us is not always the case. All of us together, and then maybe we [all do] garage sale-ing. And then stay in and cook and watch Below Deck.

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Have you made any changes in your 50s?

Definitely my workouts changed. I’m not running on the street anymore. … It’s definitely more about strength and lengthening and flexibility. In terms of aging, I always think of Nora Ephron. She said it beats the alternative. I do think about that quite a bit. Because if I ever look at my hands — and the skin is sort of like my mother’s now — and I look at my neck, and you think, like, Oh. But it does beat the alternative. There’s no two ways about it. I’m a little more careful with my time. Time becomes more precious, and you become more aware of it as a limited resource. So I’m a little bit more selective with what I do and how I spend my time and who I spend it with. That’s probably a fair assessment of my awareness of my own mortality now. My dad passed away last year, and my first daughter is leaving the house, going off to college. I think the combination of the two has made me just aware that this is not forever, and it’s precious.

McCormack played Deputy National Security Adviser Kate Harper on “The West Wing.”

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Do you keep in touch with your West Wing colleagues?

I do. I’m writing a book on The West Wing right now. Melissa Fitzgerald — [who played] Carol Fitzpatrick, C.J. Cregg’s (Allison Janney’s) assistant — and I, we're writing a book about the history of The West Wing, the making of The West Wing, and also its legacy of service. [Fitzpatrick] transitioned her life after The West Wing into a career of service. She and I are great friends. It’s been a real joy. We’re all really close. Allison Janney and Brad Whitford are two of my best friends, and Richard [Schiff]. We all get together, a lot of times for service, actually. Sometimes socially, too. But often, because one of us — Dule [Hill] or Allison or one of us — will say, “Hey, I’ve got this thing. I need everyone to show up, or everyone to make some noise.” And we all come. We all sort of hear the Bat-Signal and come running for each other, which has been really nice. We’re all in a text chain together, and so [for] any big events in our lives, we’re all together. Often on a show, you get one friend or two friends, but we are really like a family. It’s just been a complete blessing.