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Generation X, born between 1965 and 1980, grew up in the last moment before everything became a screen. We learned to type on typewriters and watched typewriters become computers, watched computers become the internet, then watched the internet swallow the world whole. We remember a world without all of this and a world with all of it, which puts us in a genuinely strange and useful position. Let’s take a moment to acknowledge a few things that wouldn’t exist without us.
Any question you had, answered by the internet
Before Google, before broadband, before any of this felt inevitable, there was the sound of a modem connecting — a long, shrieking negotiation between your computer and the universe — and then, if you were patient and lucky, the internet. Generation X grew up with encyclopedias and card catalogs, and then one afternoon somebody showed us a search bar and said, “Type anything.” Nothing was ever the same.
Connecting virtually with strangers and friends
We did more than adapt to the internet, though. We also built the places where people actually went.
In the 1990s, AOL chat rooms gave us our first taste of talking to strangers online, and we discovered that this was both wonderful and extremely inadvisable.
In 2003, Gen Xer Tom Anderson cofounded MySpace, one year after Friendster paved the way. MySpace was the first social network to spread far and wide and introduced the concept of the curated online self: the profile picture, the favorite songs, the careful performance of personality for an audience of people you sort of knew.
Facebook, which was built by a millennial, gets all the cultural memory. But Gen X built the template, figured out what worked and handed it forward. The fake boyfriends, the oversharing, the strangers who felt like friends — all of it traces back to us.
You’re welcome, and also, we’re sorry.
The honesty-to-a-fault of blogs
In January 1994, a 19-year-old Swarthmore College student named Justin Hall sat down in his dorm room and started telling everyone everything. His site, Justin’s Links From the Underground, was a journal of his daily activities, a collection of hyperlinks to weird corners of the early internet and an ungated window into his personal life, so wide open that The New York Times Magazine would call him, in 2004, “the founding father of personal blogging.” (It’s still online at links.net!)
Blogging caught on and gave young writers a way to self-publish, develop a voice and find an audience, and it gave people from underserved communities a way to build their own. Blogging platforms like LiveJournal, Blogger and Open Diary gave way to microblogging platforms like Twttr (later Twitter and now simply X). You’re welcome, and also, we’re sorry.
The one-way-communication delight of pagers
Before the smartphone made constant availability a normal condition of modern life, there was the pager, or beeper, and it was beautiful: It could tell you someone was looking for you, but it could not make you do anything about it. You saw the number. You made a choice. You found a phone, or you didn’t.
As the first generation asked to be reachable, Gen X negotiated the terms carefully. The beeper was a compromise — yes, you can find me, but finding me is not the same as reaching me, and reaching me is not my problem.
Then came the cellphone, the smartphone, the read receipt and the typing indicator, and suddenly there was no such thing as not knowing. We didn’t miss the beeper until it was gone.
Normalizing convenience food
By 1986, roughly 1 in 4 American homes had a microwave oven, and the latchkey kids who got home before anyone else discovered that many delicious foods could be ready in minutes. From there, the entire concept of waiting for food began its long, slow decline. We didn’t cause this shift so much as accelerate it past the point of no return.
The food industry noticed. The 1980s were essentially one long experiment in finding out what a child alone in a house would eat without adult supervision. The answer was almost anything, as long as it came out of a foil pouch or a brightly colored box. Toaster Strudels, Capri-Sun, Lunchables and Golden Grahams were not foods so much as caloric delivery systems for a generation with 90 seconds and no oversight.
Latchkey kids turned corporate leaders
There is a management philosophy, beloved by a certain generation, that goes roughly like this: Figure it out, don’t complain about it, and if you absolutely have to fall apart, do it somewhere I can’t see you. Gen Xer Kelly Cutrone literally wrote the book on it. Her 2010 memoir, If You Have to Cry, Go Outside, became a New York Times bestseller, which tells you something about the generation that bought it.
This disposition didn’t come from nowhere. The latchkey kids who grew up letting themselves into empty houses, feeding themselves and solving their own problems became the adults who built companies the same way: resourcefully, without much hand-holding, and with a fairly high tolerance for ambiguity.
According to Guidant Financial’s 2025 report on small-business ownership, Gen X owns roughly half of all small businesses in the United States and accounts for the largest share of entrepreneurs of any generation. We run a significant portion of the companies, studios, platforms and institutions that organize contemporary life, largely without anyone noticing or particularly caring, which is fine. We’re used to it.
The music festival as a destination
Music festivals as a concept aren’t a Gen X invention; just ask an elder about the original Woodstock. But the modern music festival really got rolling in 1991, when Jane’s Addiction singer Perry Farrell created Lollapalooza as a farewell tour for his band. It was too successful to remain that way.
The first year’s lineup reflected American music at the moment: Siouxsie and the Banshees, Nine Inch Nails, Living Colour, Rollins Band, Butthole Surfers and Ice-T’s metal band, Body Count. Subsequent years got even more diverse and adventurous. A young fan could show up to see his favorite band, Cypress Hill, and leave with a new favorite band, Pavement.
Now the warm months are thick with festivals: Coachella, Bonnaroo, Bumbershoot, BottleRock, Outside Lands and more. Lollapalooza has been a permanent fixture in Chicago’s Grant Park since 2005, even though it handed the national tastemaker crown to Coachella. And what Farrell figured out in 1991 still holds: Put the right artists in the same place on the same weekend, and the audience will do the rest.
Sports taken to the extreme
By the late 1970s, some innovative skateboarders had already built their own half-pipes. So when a drought-stricken California banned its citizens from filling their swimming pools, the latchkey kids of the Golden State grabbed their skateboards, hit the rudimentary half-pipes and developed some tricks.
Skate culture spread to the rest of the world thanks to a slew of skateboard magazines like Big Brother and Thrasher. Soon the scene had stars, and Tony Hawk, Danny Way, Jason Lee and Rob Dyrdek made fortunes. In 1995, ESPN debuted its own extreme Olympics, The X Games. Now most of this stuff is in the actual Olympics, a cultural sea change not seen since Esther Williams convinced an entire generation in the 1940s that synchronized swimming was not only a sport but a glamorous one.
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