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Insider Secrets from a Top Colorectal Surgeon

Why you should skip the flushable wipes, try a Squatty Potty and not get embarrassed about your body


illustration of a doctor with a toilet, laxatives, wipes
Colorectal surgeon Philip Pearson says eat more fiber and stop sitting on the toilet for so long looking at your phone.
Kathleen Fu

Many older adults are used to talking to their doctors about just about everything. Nothing on our body is off-limits regarding questions about health and longevity. It’s just part of getting older. 

But there is one thing that almost everybody has difficulty bringing up. It’s your butt — more medically, your anus. The reality is, anuses weaken and deteriorate with age. Hemorrhoids become more common. Rates of anal cancer are on the rise, especially among older adults. Problems with your anus or rectum are one of the health conditions you shouldn’t be embarrassed about.

Philip Pearson, M.D., is here to help. With two decades of experience, he’s a colorectal surgeon (a more up-to-date term for the same speciality as a proctologist) at Main Line Health in the Philadelphia area and a diplomate of the American Board of Colon and Rectal Surgery. He also runs a popular TikTok account where he discusses health with thousands of followers. There is nothing, literally nothing, he hasn’t been asked about anuses. Here he shares tips — in his own words — with AARP members.

Stop using flushable wet wipes

They might make you feel cleaner than using toilet paper, but “flushable” wet wipes contain chemicals and fragrances that can damage the skin significantly and lead to irritation and inflammation. Also, they can strip away the good bacteria from your anus and the surrounding skin. That’s right — your anus has both good and bad bacteria, and getting rid of both can upset your skin microbiome, leading to redness and discomfort down there. I could show you pictures of the damage done to sensitive skin by these wipes that would make you cringe. (Don’t worry, I won’t!) Wet wipes are also expensive, can clog up your plumbing and are terrible for the environment. Stick with toilet paper or consider investing in a bidet, which can run between $400 and $1,500.

Scrolling can be bad for your butt

Smartphones aren’t the main reason people spend too much time on the toilet. Back in the pre-internet days, people used to read magazines and newspapers on the can. The general rule is that you shouldn’t spend more than 10 minutes sitting on the toilet, and not just because it’s gross. (Researchers at the University of Arizona discovered that most smartphones have 10 times more bacteria than toilet seats.) The longer you’re straining during bowel movements, the higher your risk of developing hemorrhoids. But even if you’re just sitting and scrolling, you're still applying pressure to the veins in your anal area, and that can lead to trouble — not just hemorrhoids but also constipation and rectal prolapse.

Squat your way to happier health

You’ve probably seen those Squatty Potty devices and thought they looked ridiculous. Well, not so fast. You don’t actually need to buy a fancy contraption, but correcting your poop posture can make all the difference. The angle of the hips, rectum and anus while sitting on a Western toilet isn’t quite right. Ideally, your knees should be higher than your hips — a footstool is usually enough to correct this — and you should lean forward and straighten your spine. There was a study a few years ago that showed sitting in a squatting position while defecating causes less strain and more complete bowel movements.

Go ahead and hold it

Whether you’re embarrassed to use a bathroom in public or the options available to you are, well, let’s just say less than sanitary, it makes sense that sometimes you won’t want to take a poop, even if nature is calling. It might be uncomfortable, but it’s almost never a bad thing to “hold” a bowel movement unless it’s a real emergency (and in that case, your body is probably going to do what it needs to do, regardless of whether you want to poop at the airport or not). Just try not to make waiting a regular thing. In rare cases, repeatedly holding in your poop can lead to constipation and even incontinence.

Too much stress makes you fart

Passing gas is completely normal. In fact, around eight in 10 adults report having gassy symptoms on a typical day. I tell my patients not to worry because that gas isn’t actually them. It’s a byproduct of the bacteria that live there, whose job is to help break down the food that your body can’t digest. How it smells depends on a million factors, including the variety of bacteria living there. But you might be making that gas worse if you’ve been under stress. There was a study in October 2021 from a team of international researchers that found people with high stress, anxiety or depression could have exacerbated gastrointestinal symptoms. It’s just another reason to find ways to manage stress.

What you think is a hemorrhoid might not be a hemorrhoid

I’m always astounded at how quickly people like to self-diagnose anal pain as hemorrhoids. It’s not always as simple as that. Itching and stinging in that area could mean dermatitis, and razor-sharp pain during defecation could mean you have fissures. But people feel something funny inside their butts, assume it’s hemorrhoids, and then slather that area with Preparation H or some other over-the-counter hemorrhoid treatment cream because they don’t want to see a doctor and confirm their suspicions. Unless you’re using a series of mirrors, you cannot see what’s actually going on down there. And even if you could, you’re probably not qualified to say what is or isn’t a hemorrhoid. Let your doctor make that diagnosis.

There’s no ironclad rule for the correct age for a colonoscopy

The age recommendation for getting a colorectal cancer screening used to be 50. But that’s changed in recent years. Now, according to the American Cancer Society, the U.S. Preventive Services Task Force and the Centers for Disease Control, the recommended age to get screened is 45. And that’s if you have no family history of colorectal cancer and no concerning symptoms like rectal bleeding, abdominal pain, unexplained weight loss and changes in your bowel habits. If you’re not sure, talk to your doctor. You might be a candidate for Cologuard, a test you can take at home that screens for precancerous polyps, but it depends on your personal risk factors. Again, talk to your doctor and don’t make a call based on what friends or family have done, assuming, “If it was fine for them, it’s probably fine for me.” What’s true for somebody else is not necessarily going to be true for you. 

Yep, you can get melanoma where the sun doesn’t always shine

Believe it or not, this is true. And it’s not caused by getting too much sunshine on your butt. (This isn’t a disease that only affects nudists.) Melanoma can occur in any skin cell that has melanin in it. Anal melanoma is extremely aggressive and almost impossible to cure, but it’s also very rare, making up just 4 percent of anorectal cancers. I’ve seen melanoma of the anus maybe three times in my 20 years of treating patients. So, don’t stress about it, but make sure to get checked if you have any weird symptoms or feel anything new back there. There’s no specific screening for anal melanoma, but it is worth mentioning to your dermatologist.

There is no such thing as a normal amount of rectal bleeding

Nothing makes me shudder like a patient telling me, “I had some bleeding down there, so my primary physician gave me a Cologuard test, and it was negative, so I’m fine.” First of all, those tests are only for asymptomatic people. Rectal bleeding always — always — needs to be checked by a professional. Even if it goes away after a few days, don’t shrug it off as probably nothing. Bleeding could signify anything from hemorrhoids to inflammatory bowel disease to colorectal cancer. So make an appointment with a colorectal specialist.

Never use a loofah down there

Don’t overthink washing your butt in the shower. Using a loofah is just asking for trouble, especially if you’re too aggressive with it. All your anus needs is a little soap and water, and make sure it’s soap that’s designed to be gentle on the skin. Just clean it like you would your arms or legs, with a washcloth and soap. And make sure you’re using a different washcloth and bar of soap for your butt than you are for the rest of your body, particularly your face. That’s a one-way ticket to getting pinkeye!

Your colon doesn’t need cleaning

Any type of colon cleanse, whether it’s a colonic or enema — where fluid is used to flush out waste material and bacteria from the colon — isn’t just a waste of time but potentially dangerous. People do get caught up in this idea that there’s “so much poop in your colon” so why not clean it out. I get it, but actually, the colon is supposed to be full of poop! It’s literally a poop-processing plant, and it works just fine if you leave it alone. There’s zero data that any kind of cleanse can help you get the “toxins” out of your colon. Poop isn’t a toxin, nor is anything in your GI tract unless you’ve swallowed poison. Leave your poor colon alone.

Witch hazel isn’t a cure-all

Pretty much everything made for your butt has witch hazel in it. From anti-chafing ointments to creams for anal fissures and hemorrhoids, it’s all loaded with witch hazel. There’s some evidence that witch hazel can relieve symptoms like itching and irritation, at least temporarily. But witch hazel is an astringent, a “pore-tightening” agent that can seriously dry out your skin in a bad way. That puts it in the same category as baby wipes. If you really want to relieve your symptoms without drying out your anus like it’s the Sahara desert, take a warm bath with a cup of Epsom salts.

There’s no correct number of bowel movements

People overthink and overanalyze a lot of things, but nothing is more ridiculous than obsessing over whether you’re pooping too much or too little. The frequency of bowel movements is affected by so many factors, like diet, lifestyle and a person’s overall health. In general, a healthy pooping schedule can run the gamut from three times a day to three times a week. Any more or less than that and you should at least bring it up to your doctor. What’s more important than frequency is how those bowel movements feel. Are you straining? Is there pain or bleeding? If not, stop counting the minutes between poops and let your body decide when it’s ready.

A little food in your stool isn’t cause for alarm

Seeing chunks of corn in your poop is one thing, but people have a tendency to freak out when they see undigested foods like carrots, nuts, seeds and sometimes even the skins of vegetables like tomatoes or bell peppers in their toilet bowl. Don’t hit the panic button! Many high-fiber foods are notoriously difficult to digest, so they pass through your body virtually unchanged. The only time to worry is if it’s accompanied by diarrhea or unexplained weight loss, which could be symptoms of Crohn’s disease, irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) or lactose intolerance.

Rectum spasms are real! And perfectly normal!

Having a sudden, sharp (if fleeting) pain in your rectum can be scary, but in most cases, it’s nothing to worry about. The key here is the pain comes on out of nowhere and isn’t related to pooping. It actually has a name — it’s called proctalgia fugax. The pain can be so intense that it’ll wake you from a deep sleep, and it usually lasts anywhere from a few seconds to a few minutes. We’re not sure exactly why it happens, but there’s speculation that it’s caused by stress, constipation and possibly even sex. Men can experience pain after an orgasm, and women can have pain with intercourse, and in both cases, it’s caused by what we call a “pelvic floor spasm.” I’ve been seeing this in both sexes more and more, and pelvic floor physical therapy can be really helpful in alleviating the discomfort. In France, all women who’ve given birth get weeks of free pelvic floor PT courtesy of the government, but in the U.S., most people still have no idea it exists.

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