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When Should I Go to the Emergency Room?

Understanding the signs of a true medical emergency can help you avoid delays when minutes matter


group of distressed and injured people sit and stand in a crowded waiting area beneath a large sign that reads "EMERGENCY"
James Yates

What are the signs that I need to go to the ER?

The emergency room can seem daunting. No one wants to go there unnecessarily, but you should never stay home if something serious is unfolding. Fortunately, there is a practical way to think this through. Let’s do it together.

I want to begin with time frame. Emergencies are usually sudden. If a symptom has been present and unchanged for weeks or months, it is unlikely to be an emergency. The ER is designed for problems that come on quickly and worsen fast. 

Next, consider which bodily function is involved. At the top of the list is breathing. Any new or worsening trouble breathing belongs in the emergency room. The same is true for chest pain, but with an important distinction. Brief discomfort lasting seconds and resolving is usually not an emergency. But chest pain that comes on and gets worse with movement or exertion should be evaluated immediately. Remember that heart attack symptoms can differ in women. While chest pain is the most common heart attack symptom in women, they may also experience less typical symptoms such as pain in their neck, back, jaw or stomach.

Then there are neurological symptoms, particularly those that appear swiftly and persist. Sudden weakness, garbled speech, facial drooping and blurred or loss of vision are classic signs of a stroke. A sudden and severe headache, often described as “the worst headache of my life,” can signal bleeding in the brain and needs immediate care.

Fainting, on the other hand, requires judgment. Most people who faint have warning signs that include feeling sweaty, nauseated or lightheaded, and then they gradually go down. This type of fainting is usually vasovagal, a common reflex when the vagus nerve overreacts to triggers such as stress, pain, even standing for too long. This kind of faint is rarely dangerous, although the American Heart Association recommends that anytime someone faints they should get a physical exam. A more concerning scenario is sudden collapse without warning. One moment you’re standing and talking, the next you’re on the floor. This could be a cardiac event and should be treated as an emergency.

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Intense abdominal pain is another reason to rush to the ER. That’s because abdominal pain is difficult to assess over the phone and often requires imaging. One of the emergency room’s greatest strengths is its ability to do blood tests and scans quickly. Severe tummy pain can signal appendicitis, a gall bladder infection, diverticulitis or an obstructing stone. These are all emergencies.

Vomiting and diarrhea also deserve respect, especially in older adults. Even when the cause is not dangerous, dehydration can become serious quickly. You may need IV fluids.

In general, as we age, the threshold for going to the ER should be lower. Serious infections like pneumonia or urinary tract infections may not cause fever or pain but instead show up as confusion or weakness. That’s why any abrupt change in mental status in older people should prompt an ER visit.

Allergic reactions like hives or a rash may seem mild, but there is no way to know how far your reaction will progress. It could later involve your throat and breathing. If you can’t reach your doctor immediately, head for the hospital.

Finally, falls require careful evaluation. A simple trip with no injury is one thing, but a fall with a loss of consciousness, difficulty getting up or a significant head strike or wound, warrants a trip to the ER.. Head injuries, especially following a blackout, often require a CT scan. If you’re taking blood thinners and you fall, you should also go to the emergency room at the first sign of trouble, such as headache, confusion or nausea.

A word about triage. When you arrive at a hospital, the emergency department checks vital signs and decides who must be seen immediately. So don’t take it personally if someone who arrives after you is taken first. Their condition is considered more urgent. This is not a dismissal; it’s how emergency care works.

Be prepared. A simple “go bag” should include your up-to-date medication list, another list of your allergies and medical conditions, your doctor’s name and a change of clothes. If it’s possible, bring along a friend or relative who can advocate for you.

People who are 75 years old and up have one of the highest rates of ER visits. As you’ve read, there are good reasons for it. Sudden breathing problems, chest pain, neurologic symptoms, confusion or major injuries are your cues to seek care right away. Believe me, you’re not wasting anyone’s time. You’re doing exactly what the ER is here for: protecting you when minutes matter. 

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