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Key takeaways
- Explaining the stories and meaning behind heirlooms, photos and records helps future generations value and keep them.
- Many legacy efforts work best when started during your lifetime, so that you can guide decisions and clarify intent.
- Passing along skills, time and attention can shape others’ lives as powerfully as financial gifts.
- Clear planning and documentation reduce confusion and ensure your values are carried forward.
A legacy means different things to different people. For some, it’s an heirloom passed down from one generation to the next. For another, it’s values and guidance shared with future generations. Legacy can also mean a charitable donation, or the gift of being present and supporting others who are important to you. Regardless of how you define it, the desire to leave something meaningful behind reminds us that what we do today echoes long after we’re gone. Here are 25 ways to leave a lasting legacy.
1. Write letters to loved ones
Documenting your thoughts and values for future generations creates lasting emotional connections, preserves memories and offers encouragement. “It leaves a tremendous blessing for the recipient,” says Sarah Neller, McMahan-McKinley Endowed Professor of Gerontology at the University of Tennessee, Knoxville. “It’s a way to have symbolic immortality as you live on in the minds and hearts of others after you’ve gone.”
Neller says you must first get into the mindset of the recipient you’re writing for. But that’s what makes the exercise more relevant, and beneficial, for the recipient.
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2. Create a family tree or genealogy record
A family tree or genealogy report preserves your family’s story and values for future generations. Sites like Ancestry, MyHeritage or FamilySearch create a tangible legacy that connects relatives across time.
“It can be very meaningful, and welcomed by members of the family,” says Rebecca Allen, executive director of the Alabama Research Institute on Aging at the University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa. Allen completed such a project for her own family, tracing her late husband’s Sicilian roots and discovering other interesting family connections in Malta, southern Italy and North Africa. “This type of genetic information provides a rich means of connection across the generations,” she says. You can also annotate it with additional family history, lessons and memories.
3. Preserve heirlooms with written explanations
Without context or a story, your uncle’s classical guitar or your grandmother’s pressed flower collection has little significance. That’s why you should document the meaning and narrative behind your heirlooms. It will build a connection with younger generations, which could also ensure that an important keepsake isn’t sold or thrown out.
“I hear people say, ‘Oh, my mom or dad passed away, and there were boxes of photo albums … I wish I knew who all those people were,’” says Ken Dychtwald, psychologist and cofounder of Age Wave, a consultancy based in Orinda, California, that focuses on aging populations. He suggests sitting down with younger family members and explaining the significance of old pictures to them.
4. Mentor colleagues or younger family members
“As we grow older, we wind up having both vocational skills and knowledge,” says Dychtwald, who advises passing those skills along by taking on a mentee. For example, a retiring teacher might mentor brand-new educators by sharing practical advice on classroom management, lesson planning and building relationships with students.
Over time, that guidance can shape how those educators approach their own careers — and how they in turn mentor others. Dychtwald also recommends approaching mentorship from a slightly different angle by becoming a “men-tern.” Basically, “the idea is that I’ll teach you some things from my vantage point, but I also want to learn some things from you from your vantage point,” explains Dychtwald.
5. Pass down traditions or recipes
Perhaps you have an old tin with holiday cookie recipes handwritten by a distant relative. Maybe you and your family gather on the summer solstice for a bonfire and s’mores. Family traditions and recipes provide a rich means of connection across generations, says Allen. Share your tradition of Sunday nature walks, or pass along your special spaghetti sauce recipe.
6. Volunteer regularly
Volunteering for a cause you care about can strengthen organizations, improve communities and inspire others to continue the work after you’re gone. “This is an example of living according to your values and living a purposeful life,” says Allen, noting that completing meaningful work helps “pay it forward.” You can mentor youth, join a group that restores local parks or volunteer at a food pantry. These contributions create ripple effects that impact lives within your community for years to come.
7. Put land into a conservation easement
If you own a lot of acreage or farmland, that property can be a big part of the family story. Start by identifying what part of the land — farmland, open space, forest and/or water — you might want to protect, advises Johnny Klemme, author of American Family Farmland: Preserving Values and Creating Wealth and a principal at Geswein Farm & Land, a specialized real estate agency headquartered in Lafayette, Indiana. “A land adviser can also help you understand current land value, future marketability, and the options you and your heirs will have under an easement,” he says.
Next, connect with a reputable land organization, such as the American Farmland Trust, the Land Trust Alliance or The Farmers Land Trust, to evaluate the property. They will work with you to define what’s allowed and what’s restricted. “Then bring in an attorney who has experience with easements, and a tax adviser to walk through the planning implications,” says Klemme.
While a will transfers ownership of the land, an agricultural conservation easement protects it. That allows you to “keep the land productive, cared for and aligned with your values for future generations,” Klemme says.
8. Start a scholarship
Support education and leave a lasting impact on your community by establishing a scholarship. Start by defining the scholarship’s purpose, the types of students who should receive it and the monetary amount. Decide whether it will be managed by a school, a nonprofit or you personally. Organizations like Bold.org, Scholarship America and Scholarships.com provide clear guidelines to help you set eligibility criteria, define an application process and establish a selection method.
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