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Key takeaways
- There is no single way to celebrate Juneteenth, but understanding its meaning is central.
- Backyard watermelon rituals shaped family memories and are tied to Juneteenth celebrations.
- Red foods like watermelon symbolize resilience and joy in Juneteenth celebrations.
I spent many youthful summers in the backyard of my parents’ house in Stone Mountain, Georgia, perfecting my watermelon-seed-spitting technique as my dad, brother and I took turns seeing who could reach the edge of the concrete patio and into the backyard grass.
Watermelon is my father’s favorite fruit, and he taught us early about the rituals taken before enjoying the summertime snack. After purchasing it from the store, the melon must be refrigerated for at least 24 hours — he likes it cold. Next, the adults cut the watermelon into half circles and quickly take it outside. Then, the prized moment: first bites of the sugary fruit with juice dripping down my hands while my tongue fishes for seeds to launch.
My father would occasionally salt his melon, explaining that was the way the elders ate it. I remember him saying it brought out the fruit’s flavor. As a 10-year-old, I was unnerved at the sight of him eating lightly salted fruit but shrugged it off as the quirky customs of our predecessors.
Eating watermelon in the backyard became a core memory of those 1990s summers, but its presence was a constant on many occasions. It was the fruit of choice for gatherings, a side dish at cookouts and a snack while we visited relatives who lived in the North. Little did I know at the time that watermelon and other red foods and drinks have been staples of Juneteenth celebrations. According to the National Museum of African American History and Culture, red food and drinks such as strawberry soda and red velvet cake represent resilience and joy. Watermelon is more than a resilient crop; it’s an enduring symbol of our liberation.
When the U.S. first recognized Juneteenth as a federal holiday in 2021, many Americans received a first glimpse of a celebration that’s been a long-held tradition in Texas. The federal recognition raised awareness of Emancipation Day, and over time, the way people celebrate has evolved as celebrants made it their own. Many families, including mine, were left wondering: How should we commemorate Juneteenth as newcomers to the holiday? What traditions, if any, should we create for our families to pass down?
According to AARP research on the power of grandparents in shaping younger generations, 62 percent of older adults believe it’s extremely or very important that families remember life experiences and stories. That opinion is higher among African American adults, with 82 percent finding it important. The same 2025 study notes that grandparents see their legacy as “emphasizing their ability to teach family values, resilience and essential life skills.”
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