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I love mess because I’m good at fixing it. For decades, I was an educator, working my way from classroom teacher to principal of four public schools in New York City. Calming down the kooky parents, dealing with the teachers, the chaos of kids, I loved it all. Even though it made me the most anxious person on earth, it also energized me. When it was time to retire, I knew I was good at a few things, particularly organizing and transforming.
Four years ago, I went back to school and ended up doing my thesis on ageism and fashion. Now, at 65, I’m putting all that to work, styling older women — I go into a closet with a client, either in person or through the magic of Zoom. I am pro-age. And I am pro-fashion.
I will discuss what the closet’s owner hope/say/think they want to accomplish. We establish goals, we try on a lot of stuff, I make recommendations. Here are six tips to achieving a better look — and a better feeling when you go outside:
Pick your style(s)
Pull out your favorite outfits and name the style you think they convey. Start a Pinterest page and type in any description you want: “classic with a twist,” “elegant French,” “casual chic.” Look at the images that come up and pick a few, then go back to your closet and see what works. Shop in real brick-and-mortar stores and try on clothes. Bring a friend. In other words, stop holding back and be you.
Wear what fits well
Don’t expect the number on a garment to be your size. Actually, stop thinking about size — think about silhouette, feel and fit. How is that item going to look, not on a random young and skinny model but on you? A few well-fitting clothes can make a lot of great outfits.
Spend smart
Ask: What are you going to keep for a while? Which means investing in basics. I don’t know how people live without a great pair of oxfords or jeans, for example, so shop with intention. This includes purchases that simply inspire you. Once you have a sense of your style, even a “risky” purchase will be part of an outfit.
Be prepared
Plan what you’ll wear a day or two ahead. For one thing, it’s fun. You check the weather and your calendar, and then you create. Soon it will feel natural to plan a few days ahead. Look at your closet as an opportunity to mix and match, and practice making combinations. It is satisfying to wake up and have an outfit prepared and ready to go.
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