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Henry Winkler: ‘My Whole Life Is a Bet’

At 79, the ‘Happy Days’ icon comes up aces with a busy schedule and lots of time for family


Henry Winkler posing for a portrait in front of an orange background
Emmy-winning actor and best-selling author Henry Winkler, 79, is the host of a new History Channel show, “Hazardous History With Henry Winkler.” It premieres June 15.
Jabari Jacobs/A&E Television Networks

It’s early morning, and Henry Winkler is enthusiastically video chatting from his home office in L.A. about all the things he learned while hosting and executive-producing the new History Channel show Hazardous History With Henry Winkler. The nostalgia-filled series takes a “how did we let this happen” look back at the risky pastimes, practices and products that were once part of Americana.

“Chemistry sets,” Winkler says with genuine surprise. “They had uranium in the chemistry set. So you could make your own atomic cloud in your house and die at 15!”

Although his excitement for the series is authentic, today he’s eagerly awaiting his favorite role: Grandpa. Four of his seven grandchildren, ages 6 months to 15 years, are coming over that afternoon to play on a Slip ’N Slide. “It is joyful,” Winkler says. “To be around them, to love them, to feel them loving you back.”

But first, Winkler shares more with AARP about his upcoming work; what he told Robert De Niro, 81, when he bumped into him recently; and why he wrote Helen Mirren, 79, a fan letter.

This interview has been edited for length and clarity. 

Henry Winkler giving a commencement speech in front of a large crowd of graduates at Georgetown University
In May, Winkler delivered a graduation speech at Georgetown University in Washington, D.C., that went viral. “This world is yours now,” Winkler told the 2025 graduates. “And this world needs fixing. And I pray to the heavens that you are the fixers. I say to you now: go!”
Elian Studio/Courtesy Georgetown University

Your commencement speech at Georgetown University last month was touching. How did you feel giving it?

I would have to say, divine. First of all, I like that I get to talk to students and tell them, “If I’m here, you can be here.” And that you’re sitting there and over there looks scary, but when you get there, you realize, “Well, wait a minute, there’s no mystery here. I can do this.” And then everything in between. And the energy — they were right there with me. I was right there with them. It was a colossal moment.

Would you tell your younger self the same thing, or something else?

Only recently have I been able to even think of an answer, and it is: Know what you want, without ambivalence. The world is mostly built on you getting yourself where you need to be. You cannot depend on an outside force.

Have you stopped worrying so much as you’ve grown older?

What really makes me uncomfortable is that phrase “Youth is wasted on the young.” I know that the process is you learn, but I wish I knew then what I know now. But then maybe the sheer terror would not have pushed me to be here to have that thought.

Henry Winkler taking a boxing stance against a large brown bear
In “Hazardous History,” Winkler explores the dangerous things Americans used to do for fun, such as fighting bears.
Jabari Jacobs/A&E Television Networks

What’s the worst thing about getting older?

My knees! Your body betraying you. ... My friend said, “In your 60s, it is clear sailing. In your 70s, your body will beat you up.”

If the physical part is the worst, what’s the best part about getting older?

What I now know. I cannot say I am wise, because I don’t know if that is true, but I am overjoyed with being able to be relaxed enough to see a truth in front of me. Knowing yourself, you know everybody on the earth.

What’s the best part about being a grandfather?

My 3-year-old, my 6-month-old, my newest 8-year-old, and, today, the 12-year-old, all come — and we got this new Slip ’N Slide [with a] little motor. So it blows it up. I got No More Tears [Johnson’s Baby Shampoo], because the first time, we used dish detergent. And it burned everybody’s eyes!

And I’m telling you, it is joyful. To be around them, to love them, to feel them loving you back. That it is our children’s children; seeing them being parents. The children feel heard. I know it. And that is something that I missed growing up.

Henry Winkler making a comical surprised face while lying on an astroturf background with his head surrounded by lawn darts
One episode of “Hazardous History” will focus on the infamous game of lawn darts, which eventually was banned by the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission in 1988 after thousands of injuries and at least one death.
Jabari Jacobs/A&E Television Networks

Yeah, different generation.

It doesn’t matter. I don’t care what the generation is. You can still listen. Not listening is detrimental. My parents didn’t listen. So I made it a point to the best of my ability to listen.

Have you been doing anything to help yourself age better?

No, because you cannot. There is nothing. There is exercise. I think about exercise all the time. I have to tell you, I have spent hours in the gym in my life. But I cannot tell you how grateful I am that I’m still at the table.

Are you a risk-taker?

No, I am not a risk-taker. I love going to Las Vegas once every four years for one or two nights. And the way I see my life is this, exactly: I put myself in the slot-machine slot. I lean over, I pull the handle, and I pray for cherries. My whole life is a bet. My whole life is a risk, as I see it. I do not take major risks. I was directing a movie in Florida [in 1993], and on our day off, we went to a carnival. People were bungee jumping. And the crowd said, “Fonz, you’ve got to bungee jump.” I said, “Hey, I don’t.” And they tried to guilt me into bungee jumping. And I said, “I’m just telling you, I cannot, I will not, and if I do, I will vomit all over you.”

Do people still address you today as the Fonz?

Well, you see, yeah, this is the great thing. I go to a Comic-Con, and there are people in line to meet me who have only read my books, [who have only seen] Parks and Rec, Arrested Development, The Waterboy, Scream, Happy Days, Barry. And I’m telling you, they are specifically there for one of those things.

Henry Winkler with Jeffrey Tambor in a scene from 'Arrested Development'
Hapless attorney Barry Zuckerkorn (Winkler, left) consults with his light-treason-committing client Oscar Bluth (Jeffrey Tambor) in “Arrested Development,” the cult-classic Fox sitcom that premiered in 2003.
20th Century Fox/Courtesy Everett Collection

I recently interviewed Mark Hamill, 73, who told me about feeling locked into a box as Luke Skywalker when he went to audition. Did you feel that way at all about the Fonz?

Not only did I feel that way, in 2000 I went and did a Broadway play [The Dinner Party] that ran for nine months. We were very successful. Came back to L.A. and still had a hard time being hired, because I’d hear, ”He’s wonderful. He is so funny. He’s a good actor, but he was the Fonz.” I look at it like one of those blow-up toys — you punch it, it goes down and comes right back to center. And I said, Oh, I use this toy as a metaphor for life. This is the way you live your life. You get knocked down, you get right up, and you keep going. That’s the way I looked at it.

Is there somebody that you haven’t worked with that you still want to work with?

I would like to do a scene with Meryl Streep [75], and I’d like to do a scene with Robert De Niro. De Niro was actually in the same restaurant — Matsuhisa — that my wife and I were at recently for lunch, and we were at the counter with our 13-year-old grandson for his birthday. We are all sitting here, the three of us. Robert De Niro, his wife and friends are sitting to the left. De Niro, who I get tongue-tied with, said, “Henry, I want to take a picture with your grandson. It’s his birthday, yes? I want to take a picture with him for his birthday.” You want to take a picture with my grandson for his birthday? I want to do a scene with you! Just one scene with you. So I let them take a picture, and then I horned in.

Did you really tell him that?

I have told him many times. Oh, yes.

What are you watching on TV? What’s on your binge list?

Last night we finished MobLand.

I interviewed Helen Mirren for MobLand.

I wrote her a fan letter. I wrote her: “In 1923, you are an angel. You are a powerful, caring, take-care-of-it, I-will-make-it-happen woman. In MobLand, you are the devil. You are evil personified. We have watched them so close together, and yet you are so far apart.” I mean that. She is amazing.

Any other TV bingeing?

Landman. Oh my God, Billy Bob Thornton, now that’s a performance that is like, in the stratosphere. OK, during the pandemic, still one of the best television shows, Crash Landing on You. South Korea. It will enchant you. A very rich, industrial family daughter has her own line of her own business. Parasails. Gust of wind blows her. Oh my God, into North Korea. She lands on a North Korean soldier, and the show starts. I’m telling you, Crash Landing on You. Oh, Jon Hamm [54]. Your Friends & Neighbors. Was he not amazing?

What else are you working on?

I was asked to be in Glengarry Glen Ross [the revival now on Broadway]. But I thought maybe it wasn’t right for me. But I know a lot of people in it. I just made a movie with Bob Odenkirk [62, who is in the show]. He is delicious. I’ve been at my dining room table with him and his wife, Naomi, but we’ve never worked together.

So your plate is full.

That’s what I mean, to be at the table. I am so grateful. Our newest children’s book comes out in September. We’re writing now.

Any regrets?

Except for the fact that I can’t sing. Maybe that I turned down Danny Zuko [in the 1978 movie Grease]. But if it was supposed to be mine, it would have been. I went with my instinct. I just couldn’t do it. Like Saturday Night Live, which I have enjoyed since the beginning. I was asked to be a host, and I couldn’t do it. At that time, I was not ready as a person, or as an actor, to do it. I could do it now. But I might be the oldest host if they ask. But it’s not a regret, because I really wasn’t ready.

Henry Winkler as 'The Fonz' in 'Happy Days'
Arthur “the Fonz” Fonzarelli (Winkler, left) and his good friend Richie Cunningham (Ron Howard) brought the 1950s to life in ABC's “Happy Days,” which aired from 1974 to 1984.
Courtesy Everett Collection

Did you turn down Danny Zuko because it was too close to the Fonz? Were you worried about that?

Yes, I was. And also, the real truth is, John Travolta [71] could do it all. He could sing, dance. I can do everything but sing. At that time.

I like that Emmy behind you. Was that the best night?

I have two daytime Emmys, and this one [was] for Barry. It was a great night. To be acknowledged by your peers is a wonderful thing. It’s lovely, and that’s where it ends. This was a lovely out-of-body surprise.

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