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Supermodel Christie Brinkley at 71: ‘I’ll Always Love Billy’

The supermodel talks to AARP about her new memoir ‘Uptown Girl,’ Billy Joel, romance, aging and more


Christie Brinkley and her new book
AARP (HarperCollins Publishers, Fadil Berisha)

What’s it like to be Christie Brinkley? Pretty darn good, readers of her engaging new memoir, Uptown Girl, are likely to conclude. She grew up in California, where she studied French and longed to be an artist, then at age 19 followed her dream by moving to Paris with just a backpack and her fresh-faced California-girl look. She was soon discovered by a photographer who’d noticed her on the street — launching her dizzyingly successful career as a model.

Brinkley’s awe and gratitude toward her good fortune shine through on the pages, which also detail some darker times. Nearly all of them are tied to her relationships with men — beginning with her biological father, Herb Hudson, who regularly beat her with a belt before leaving for good and giving up all parental rights when she was 8 years old. (Her mother later married Don Brinkley, a kind man who became Christie’s true father.)

She’d go on to marry four times, most famously to Billy Joel, her second husband (1985–1994). His drinking problem made their partnership unbearable, Brinkley reveals, and was a major reason for their split — although she describes them as lifelong friends and co-parents to their daughter, the musician Alexa Ray Joel, 39. Brinkley later had a son, Jack Paris Brinkley-Cook, 29, with her third husband, real estate developer Richard Taubman. She has another daughter — Sailor Brinkley Cook, 26, who has modeled and looks remarkably like her mom — with architect Peter Cook. That final marriage ended in a bitter divorce; Brinkley writes that he referred to her as “the cash cow” behind her back.

Brinkley, 71, who sounds as warm and sunny on the phone as she appears onscreen and on paper, spoke with AARP about her book and her life.

What inspired you to write a memoir?

My dad always said, “Christie, promise me that someday you’ll write about your life — at least write about Paris.” So at first I thought I would write a book just about my years in Paris, because it was so magical and wonderful and romantic. Then I was cleaning out some drawers and came across some of my journals. I showed them to Lisa Sharkey [director of creative development] at HarperCollins, and she wrote me an incredible letter about why [the book] needs to be my life story. Her letter was so good, I was like, “Well, if you’ll write it with me…”

Christie Brinkley's 1968 school photo
Have beret, will travel: Brinkley's 1968 school photo from Le Lycée Francais de Los Angeles. She moved to Paris shortly afterward.
Courtesy of Christie Brinkley

Your experience in Paris does sound like a kind of fairy tale.

It was a great time in my life. To leave home with a backpack and no hotel reservations is truly the greatest luxury of all, I think — to travel without a plan and without baggage and go and be footloose and fancy-free.

Brinkley holding two birds while modeling
Brinkley shooting in Careyes, Mexico, in 1981.
Courtesy of Christie Brinkley; Photo: Patrick Demarchelier/Trunk Archive

You wanted to be an artist at the time. Do you ever wonder what you’d have done if you hadn’t been discovered as a model? 

I would probably be an artist or an oceanographer. I have little drawings in my journals that started with letters home, where I would draw and write “This is what my room looks like” or “This is what I’m looking at now in Portugal: a little harbor with fishing nets.” But life hasn’t slowed down long enough [to focus on art], so every time I paint it’s like I’m learning things from scratch again. I do wonder what my artwork would look like today if I had been doing nothing but painting every day.

So many celebrities write about their bouts with addiction. Was it hard for you to stay away from drugs and the party scene in the ’70s and ’80s?

There were a lot of drugs around back in the day. When I was in school, all my friends were dropping acid on the weekends and doing mescaline and peyote, and I asked my parents if I could change schools because I really didn’t want to do that. [Brinkley enrolled in the private school Le Lycée Français de Los Angeles.] I knew that someday I wanted to be a mom, and I did not want to do anything that would make my body unhealthy. That’s not to say that there weren’t times later on in life when I would dabble with this or that, but no, it wasn’t that hard to [avoid getting lost in it], because I had my boundaries.

Brinkley and Jean-Francois Allaux
Brinkley married French illustrator Jean-Francois Allaux in 1975.
Courtesy of Christie Brinkley

You write about how cruel your biological father was. Do you think your relationship with him might have affected later relationships with men?

I don’t know. I think that I blocked what happened so well, and that my mom also didn’t allow it to imprint on me in the way that it might have if we had talked about it all the time. We went on as though it never happened once she met and married my real dad, Don Brinkley, who was the greatest man ever. He was so wonderful.

It’s funny, I keep moving forward. I try to learn, though. Between husband three and four [Taubman and Cook], I didn’t take the time to let the lessons sink in from number three. That was my bad. Fools rush in, and I went rushing in. That was a big mistake.

Christie Brinkley and Billy Joel
The "Uptown Girl" became Billy Joel's wife In 1985.
Courtesy of Christie Brinkley; Photo: Patrick Demarchelier/Trunk Archive

The book also includes details about your marriage to Billy Joel. Did you tell him what you planned to share about him in your book?

Billy said, “You can say whatever you need to say. Don’t censor yourself.” And in the book, I talk about how Billy and I were soulmates. We had so much fun together, and it was so wonderful. And I think I convey that, so if I didn’t convey why I had to leave, I don’t think people would ever understand. But that’s a friendship that I cherish. I’ll just always love Billy.

How do you feel about being in your 70s?

I really don’t think about the numbers. I just think about all the adventures I still want to have. I think about getting out into my garden and getting it ready for spring. There are always a million things that I want to do, so I don’t have time to think about aging and all of that. But I did get my hip replaced … You take care of things and keep plowing ahead, right?

What are some things you love in your life right now?

Definitely friends and family. There’s nothing like a long lunch, a nice, long dinner around a table, or just sitting around a fire. In the summertime, I love to have a little firepit outside. I love being outdoors. If I ever feel down about anything, I just go out for a walk on the beach, through the woods or through the garden, and I am instantly elevated. It’s just the best. Nature is right up there on my friends list.

Brinkley with her kids
Brinkley with her kids Sailor and Jack in the Hamptons in the early 2000s.
Courtesy of Christie Brinkley

Do you have anyone special in your life now, and would you ever get married again?

I never say never. But there’s nobody special right now. I’m very content in my life. My house is always full of laughter and love and joy. And there’s always a pile of kids coming home, bringing their friends. I’d be happy if I could share some moments with someone — when things are so beautiful that it’s almost too much for me to have it to myself. When I’m overwhelmed by the beauty of a sunset, I want to turn to somebody and go, “Look at that! Isn’t it amazing?” That’s the only time that I miss having somebody next to me.​ 

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