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When Jenn McKee discovered that her father had lost nearly $500,000 to a romance scammer a few years ago, she didn’t report the incident to authorities. Why? “In our situation, we weren’t sure that it would be worth involving the police,” she says.
Many people feel the same way. They don’t understand that scams are crimes. Other victims don’t share their stories because they’re ashamed — they fear others will judge them for believing the scammers’ lies.
“I think people are embarrassed,” says former police officer Jason Bartolacci, a certified fraud examiner and director of the ProSight Fraud Alert Network, a digital community where financial institutions can share information about fraud while collaborating to fight it. “They don’t want people to know they’ve lost money, because they’re worried about how they’ll be perceived.”
But one of the biggest challenges for fraud fighters like Bartolacci, who want more victims to speak up: It’s confusing to figure out how and where to report the crimes. “People really don’t know what to do or where to go,” Bartolacci says. (See more on that below.)
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And yet, it’s crucial that victims come forward, for many reasons. One is that it gives law enforcement and policymakers an accurate portrait of the fraud epidemic, says Kathy Stokes, director of fraud prevention programs at the AARP Fraud Watch Network. “We need people to report it when they’re victims so that it gets counted — so that people who are in positions of authority can recognize it and try to do more to solve this crisis,” she says.
Fraud by the numbers
A record $16.6 billion was reported stolen through internet crime in 2024, up 33 percent from $12.5 billion in 2023, according to the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI). The agency’s data is based on more than 859,000 reports that Americans submitted to its Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) last year.
But because so many victims don’t report fraud crimes, the actual losses are far higher than the official numbers indicate. The Federal Trade Commission (FTC) estimated in a 2025 report to Congress that, when accounting for underreporting, as much as $195.9 billion was stolen from Americans via financial fraud in 2024 alone.
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