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If worrying about running out of money in retirement is keeping you up at night, you aren’t alone. Untold numbers of older adults have that concern, and for good reason. While inflation has cooled, prices are still going up. Interest rates remain high. And people are living longer. All of which means your money has to work harder to last.
“Everybody is losing sleep” about retirement, says Bryan Kuderna, a certified financial planner in Shrewsbury, New Jersey. “It’s definitely a bigger one for women, who have longevity in their genes.”
You can’t control inflation and interest rates, but you can do things — or stop doing things — to help make your money last in retirement. If any of the actions below sound familiar, it may be time for a reset.
1. Too much spending in the early days of retirement
Your entire working life was spent amassing money for retirement, so who can blame you if you want to spend it early on? But do too much of that and you may run into problems down the road.
“One of the big things we see is as soon as people retire, they treat every day like it’s Saturday,” says Kuderna. “They go into retirement projecting their expenses today will stay that way the rest of their lives. A few extra vacations and trips with family and friends, and before they know it, they spent their retirement account in year one or two.”
How to fix it? Rein in your expenses or get a part-time job to supplement your income.
2. Gifting too quickly
It’s natural to want to help your children and grandchildren out, but too much of a good thing can leave you penniless. Before you book that cruise for the entire family or give your child the down payment for a home, make sure you can afford to.
“The rule of thumb I tell my clients is first make sure you’re taking care of yourself financially,” says Matthew Curfman, CEO of Richmond Brothers, a financial planning firm in Jackson, Michigan. “If you don’t take care of yourself, you can’t help others financially.”
How to fix it: Learn to say no, at least for now. Make sure you have enough cash in the bank to live comfortably in retirement, and then lend a helping hand.
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