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In Mariam Paré’s art studio in Naperville, a western suburb of Chicago, the first thing you notice isn’t the paintbrush in her mouth. It’s the rhythm of her movements. She turns from the canvas, lowers her head, taps the brush in water, wipes it on a towel, dabs color and pivots back to paint in one unbroken loop. It’s like watching a beautifully choreographed dance, the kind of muscle memory that comes from years of practice.
The 50-year-old works for hours at a time, her face just inches from her work, creating vibrant portraits and landscapes that explode with color. Her art has been exhibited in Chicago and appeared on greeting cards and calendars sold worldwide. In 2014, the actor Pierce Brosnan invited Paré to his Malibu home after learning of a painting she’d done of him as James Bond.
“He told me the reason he bought the painting was because he paints, too,” Paré says. “What touched him about my work is that I use so much color, and you would think, given all of the challenges I’ve faced, that I might be sad or something. The fact that I saw so much color in the world, despite everything, really touched him.”
Paré is part of a small but vibrant community of artists across the globe who work within their limitations, forced by circumstance to radically alter everything they knew about creating art. Their stories teach us something profound about aging, adaptation and the resilience of the creative spirit — lessons that resonate far beyond the canvas.
Many older adults know what it’s like to have their bodies set new terms. These four artists have spent decades discovering what happens when you refuse to let loss define the perimeter of your life. Their tools changed, their rituals evolved, but their creative core remained.
The bridge between therapy and vocation
In 1996, while the then 20-year-old Paré was visiting friends in Richmond, Virginia, she was shot in the back by someone who was never caught. The bullet severed her spinal cord, leaving her a quadriplegic. She had trained as an artist, studying for a semester at College of DuPage in suburban Chicago, and had recently moved to San Francisco with hopes of attending art school there. But after the shooting, it looked like she might never paint again.
“After any life-changing injury or disability, there’s a lot of uncertainty,” says Paré. “Especially with such a profound disability, there aren’t a lot of things you know [about] how your future is going to be.” She realized she needed to get back to art, but she just didn’t know how.
During rehabilitation, an occupational therapist taught Paré to grasp pens and pencils with her mouth for tasks she could no longer do with her hands. When she learned to write her signature, she realized something: “If I can write my name with a pen, I could probably paint this way.”
The transition was humbling. Before her injury, Paré had been painting at a very high level with her hands. “When I transferred to the technique of painting with my mouth, I wasn’t very good,” she says. “I had artistic knowledge in my mind, but I wasn’t able to translate it yet. And it took me years to learn to paint with my mouth as good as I did with my hands.”
Her first completed painting that felt truly successful was a portrait of Bob Marley. “I was like, ‘OK, that kind of looks like Bob Marley’,” she says, laughing. “I knew then, ‘OK, I have some potential here.’ ”
The community that changed everything
Paré’s professional breakthrough came when she received a scholarship from Mouth and Foot Painting Artists (MFPA). It’s the American chapter of an international cooperative that traces its roots to 1957, when German painter Erich Stegmann, a polio survivor who grew up unable to use his arms, assisted in forming a self-help association with other disabled artists. MFPA USA says student members receive scholarship support to fund materials and training, and a monthly stipend based on their skill level.
MFPA reproduces member artwork on items such as greeting cards, calendars and prints, with more than 90 percent of the profits going to the artists in the association, according to New Mobility, a U.S. disability and lifestyle magazine.
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