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10 Tools to Help with Pain
- Endorphins: Your body’s natural painkillers
- Healing with ‘MEAT’
- Temperature therapy
- Supplements
- Nonopioid analgesic medications
- Nonopioid prescriptions
- Medical interventions and medication management
- Psychological approaches
- Cannabis and ketamine
- Acupuncture, yoga, meditation and more
Not too long ago, I was skiing with my kids on their spring break when my mother called.
She knew I was on the slopes, so I was concerned at seeing her number pop up. I pushed my helmet away from my ear and said hello, and she got straight to the point: “I broke my back.”
My mother, who was then 81 and had hardly ever been sick a day in her life, had lost her balance while rolling her suitcase and toppled backward, landing in a sitting position. It hurt, and afterward her back felt sore, but she didn’t think much of it until the pain persisted.
Despite massaging her back, resting it, icing it and even heating it for a few days, the pain wouldn’t go away. So nearly a week after the injury, she went to get an X-ray.

In It Doesn’t Have to Hurt: Your Smart Guide to a Pain-Free Life, Sanjay Gupta, M.D., shares effective options for relief that you can start practicing today to greatly reduce your chances of suffering pain tomorrow.
Mom had a fracture of the first vertebra in her lumbar spine — an L1 compression fracture that compressed her bone from its normal cylindrical shape to that of a pancake.
“I cannot live like this,” she told me. I knew the excruciating pain could be expected to last at least a couple of months, which would feel like a lifetime for her. I also knew she wasn’t interested in taking high doses of opioid pain medications. Finally, she made it clear that she didn’t want an aggressive operation, given her age and frailty.
So, along with her doctors, we landed on a relatively new approach to deal with her pain, a minimally invasive procedure known as kyphoplasty, in which a hollow needle is used to insert a small balloon into the broken bone, which is then inflated.
As the balloon enlarges, the bone starts to regain its normal height. X-rays make it possible to assess when the bone looks close to normal again, and then the balloon can be deflated and removed. Finally, a dollop of hot liquid cement is injected, which quickly hardens and helps the vertebra maintain its normal anatomy.
On the morning of the procedure, she looked at me and said, “If this doesn’t help with the pain, I think my time here on earth is done.” It was devastating to hear. My tough mom now seemed so weak.
That is the thing about pain. When you are in agony, it is all-encompassing.
Thankfully the procedure, which took about an hour, went well, and my mom felt almost instantaneous relief. While the surgery can relieve pain in many different ways, it certainly seemed that a significant amount of her pain relief was psychological, because the procedure had provided a much-needed dose of hope.
Whatever the case, she immediately reduced her pain score from “I want to die” to a 3 out of 10. On the day I left her she was whistling in the kitchen as she cooked.
My mother’s recovery isn’t a miracle, or even an anomaly. Indeed, a dizzying amount of medical progress has been made since I became a neurosurgeon more than 25 years ago. We better understand what causes pain, what may best relieve it, and what we can do to minimize or even eliminate certain types of pain.
Many of those life-changing insights have not yet been made easily available to the public. If you are in pain, there are far more effective options than you may have previously realized, as well as important things you should start doing today to greatly reduce your chances of suffering pain tomorrow.
These are strategies I have started incorporating into my life, as well as the lives of my wife, teenage kids and parents.
The pain management toolbox
If you’ve read anything about pain over the past 20 years, you have likely been angered by the opioid epidemic, a tragedy fueled by ignorance, arrogance and greed.
Because opioids have consumed most of the conversation, most people don’t even realize there are plenty of other effective options to help relieve pain, including breathtaking breakthroughs that would have been unimaginable only a few years ago.
Modern science and ancient wisdom have collectively begun to crack the code on pain. You can too. Consider this your pain management toolbox.
1. Endorphins: Your body’s natural painkillers
You know that opioids are some of the world’s most powerful painkillers. But what you may not know is that your body is adept at producing natural compounds that have similar effects. They’re called endorphins, a term that merges the words “endogenous” (meaning “from within”) and “morphine.” Pump up the endorphins — decrease the pain.
How does it work? Opioids bind to receptors located on the outer membrane of nerve cells in the brain, spinal cord and other organs, triggering a cascade of chemical changes within and between neurons, producing feelings of pleasure as well as pain relief.
Under extreme stress, the fight-or-flight hormones can trigger the endogenous opioid system, which greatly reduces the pain. “[It] is one of the most potent analgesic, anti-pain molecules that exists,” says Daniela Salvemini, director of Saint Louis University’s Institute for Translational Neuroscience.
These endogenous opioid benefits take place at a subconscious level, but now we know that simply moving — jogging or going for a brisk walk — can trigger an endorphin release that delivers the rush we call a “runner’s high.” Gazing at a sunset or a loved one can help do it as well.
If you don’t believe in the essential power of these chemicals, consider the story of Dan Kruger, whose 40-year career as a motorbike racer led to fractures of his back, ribs, hands, wrists, fingers, leg, ankles, toes, jaw and collarbones — and eventually, an opioid addiction. Kruger overcame both the pain and the addiction through 15-minute guided meditations and his own mindfulness exercises.
“It’s amazing that while meditating to the 15-minute guided recording, my chronic pain or migraines disappear,” he says. He compares it to his workouts at the gym, training to stay in shape. “I train every day because it gives me these endorphins that help me get positive, reduce stress and stay fit. Meditation does much the same thing for me.”
Over time, Kruger carefully weaned himself off opioids, even refusing them after injuries and operations that followed. After a full year of his opioid-free recovery, the combination of brain-training techniques and other conventional and complementary pain management tools continued to deliver adequate relief, he says.
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