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Being the in-house chef for a loved one with dementia is a daily challenge. The disease makes, breaks and changes the rules, and can cause the most primal need — an appetite for food and liquids — to disappear. As the disease progresses skills are lost. Your loved one may become unable to apply logic, override inclinations, explain a sudden refusal to eat favorite meals or, as time goes on, remember the purpose of a spoon. Two things remain constant: your loved one’s need for nutrients and your need to make sure they are met.
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Know what doesn’t work
- Insisting that your loved one eat is not productive
- Nagging, pleading, frustration and, “Try a bite,” will not generate cooperation or hunger
- Leaving food in front of the person in your care after it is clear that they are uninterested in eating