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Relaxing with local cats has been at the core of virtually all my recent travels, from writing and photographing my book Street Cats & Where to Find Them to getaways with my daughters. Street cats, kitties who, unlike feral strays, were once domesticated but now reside on city streets and in parks, have become an integral part of my travel plans because they help me physically, mentally and emotionally, and deepen my connection to and understanding of the places I visit. When posting photos of my various cat encounters, I’d routinely get “But you have cats at home!” messages from my mom.
She’s right. While I didn’t grow up with them — one of my parents’ few failings — I’ve been a cat dad of rescues and foster father to kittens. That used to be enough. But today, I don’t go anywhere without a quick internet search to see whether there’s a local street cat community, and figure out who or which organization is taking care of them so that I may make a small donation to help. At the very least, I’d visit a good cat café. And as I observe countless travelers around the world petting and photographing cats, I know that I’m not alone.
Charlotte Russell, a clinical psychologist and founder of The Travel Psychologist, says older adults have the opportunity to ask “Who am I now”? after the children have grown up. “Travel gives us opportunities to answer this question because new situations and cultures can teach us so much about ourselves.”
One word of caution: Be mindful when petting unfamiliar cats, as they can carry germs that can make people sick, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The CDC notes adults 65 and older are more likely to contract illnesses caused by germs transmitted by certain animals. The agency recommends washing your hands after handling cats or coming in contact with cat saliva, among other instances.
Lima, Peru
I first discovered the self-care cats provide while in Lima. I was there for four days, as part of a five-month trip around the world to gather information for my book on cats. I walked miles, scribbled notes, photographed cats and stressed about my tight schedule. In the bucolic parks of Lima’s Miraflores neighborhood, with cats on me and by my feet, and people caring for them with medicine and food, I sat and observed. Never before had I felt so at ease. The massive exhale the cats of Lima provided helped me pause long enough to discover that parks are the social infrastructure that all people need to feel connected to something larger than themselves. I witnessed an open mic poetry night, dozens of local couples dancing in fancy dress and a Michael Jackson impersonator — often with a cat on my lap.