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Can I Collect Social Security Survivor Benefits When My Ex-Spouse Dies?

Eligibility depends on meeting three requirements


Chris Gash

Divorced people may be able to collect survivor benefits on the work record of a deceased former spouse. Generally, you will qualify if you meet these criteria:

  • The marriage lasted at least 10 years.
  • You are at least 60 years old (at least 50 if you have a disability) or you are caring for a child from the marriage who is under 16 or has a disability that began before age 22 (in which case, there is no age or length-of-marriage requirement).
  • You are single or you remarried after turning 60 (50 if you have a disability). If you remarried before that age and are still with that spouse, you cannot claim survivor benefits on the record of a deceased ex.

As of December 2024, about 466,000 people — 96 percent of them women — were collecting survivor benefits on the earnings record of a deceased former spouse, according to Social Security Administration (SSA) data. Here are some key things to know about survivor benefits for divorced spouses.

How much will I get?

If you claim survivor benefits at 60, the minimum eligibility age for most people, you get 71.5 percent of the amount your deceased ex-spouse was getting from Social Security when they died. The percentage rises incrementally for each month you wait up to full retirement age (FRA) for survivors (see below). At FRA, you are entitled to receive 100 percent of your late ex’s benefit amount.

If you are below 60 but eligible because you are caring for children from the marriage, the survivor benefit is 75 percent of your former spouse’s benefit.

What is the full retirement age for survivors?

FRA for the purpose of claiming survivor benefits is between 66 and 67, depending on your year of birth. If you were born in 1958 or earlier, you’ve already reached FRA for survivors. Here’s how it works for people born after that:

That’s different from FRA for retirement benefits, which is 66 and 10 months for people born in 1959 and settles at 67 if you were born in 1960 or later.

What if my ex died before starting Social Security?

If your ex-spouse was not getting Social Security at the time of death, the survivor benefit will be based on the deceased’s primary insurance amount — 100 percent of the benefit they would have been entitled to based on their lifetime earnings.  

If the ex-spouse had passed full retirement age, the survivor benefit would be based on what the deceased would have collected had they claimed benefits in the month of death. That means any delayed retirement credits the late ex-spouse would have earned will count for the survivor. These credits boost benefits by two-thirds of 1 percent for each month the deceased was past full retirement age, up to age 70.

Can I get both retirement and survivor benefits?

No. If you are eligible for both retirement and survivor benefits, you cannot claim both and receive the sum total. You’ll get whichever amount is bigger.

However, you do have the option of collecting one benefit first and switching to the other when you are older and the monthly payment will be larger.

For example, if your late ex earned considerably more than you did during your working lives, you might want to claim your retirement benefit early and switch when you reach FRA for survivors and become eligible to collect their full Social Security payment amount.

Or you can file for the survivor benefit as early as age 60 and wait until as late as 70 to switch to your own retirement benefit, accruing delayed retirement credits that increase your eventual payment. In either scenario, you can be bringing in some income from Social Security while waiting to collect your biggest possible benefit.

Keep in mind

If your late ex-spouse took reduced benefits by filing for Social Security early, you may qualify for the highest possible share of those benefits — that is, the highest possible survivor benefit — before your own FRA. If this is your situation, call the SSA at 800-772-1213 to see how it will affect your survivor benefit.

  • Survivor benefits paid to you as a divorced spouse do not affect payments to the late beneficiary’s widow or widower or to other former spouses.

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