The Age-Gap Question Everyone Wants Answered

Experts weigh in on what makes these relationships work. Plus, four other Members Edition stories worth your time

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Experts say an age gap is less about the number of years and more about life stages, emotional maturity and mutual respect.
Jon Krause

For this week’s Members Edition Unlocked — where we unlock five stories for one week — we look at age gaps. Celebrity couples can make large age gaps look glamorous. But how much is too much? According to relationship experts, the answer has less to do with the number of years between you and more to do with life stage, emotional maturity and power dynamics. They explain why some age-gap relationships thrive while others create challenges for couples and their families. Find out where the experts draw the line.

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This article was created with the assistance of generative AI and reviewed by editors before publication. The individual stories featured are original AARP content and were not generated by AI.



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