5 Best Pillows for Side Sleepers of 2026: Tested and Approved

Our lab team tested dozens of models to find the best options for the most common sleeping position


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The Helix Cooling Memory Foam on display
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If you’re like the majority of sleepers, according to research, you may spend the majority of your time in the side sleeping position. And the right pillow is essential for keeping your head and neck aligned while you sleep on your side. If the pillow’s too low, you risk extending your head and straining your neck. Too high, and you risk craning your neck upwards, causing tension. Based on our testing and conversations with medical experts, the best pillows for side sleepers strike a happy medium — keeping your neck straight while filling in the space between your shoulder and head. If you’ve been fluffing or punching your pillow for too long, or you’re waking up with a stiff neck, it might be time for a new pillow. 

Side sleeping was the most common sleeping position (53 percent) in our March 2026 survey of 300 adults ages 50 and older who had purchased a new sleep accessory, like a pillow, in the last three years. In that survey, 72 percent of side sleepers said they felt less pain once they upgraded their pillow (the majority purchased a memory foam pillow). And while many people sleep on their side, we tested each pillow in every position to provide insight for combination sleepers who shift positions during the night (and made up 29 percent of our survey respondents).

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If you’re a side sleeper on the hunt for a new pillow, we’re here to help. Our AARP Smart Picks team identified the best pillows for side sleepers based on their performance in our lab tests, feedback from older adult testers and insights from medical experts. Many of the pillows in our review are made with memory foam and offer customization options to adjust the height and firmness. 

Read on for our reviews of pillows that offer the right level of pressure relief and spinal support for older adult side sleepers. All pillows tested were queen or standard size.

Our top pillow for side sleepers 

Luxome LAYR Customizable Pillow

  • Perfect pressure relief ratings for side sleepers
  • Adjustable loft and firmness 
  • Machine-washable cover

The best pillows for side sleepers of 2026 

  1. Luxome LAYR Customizable Pillow: Best Overall
  2. Brooklinen Marlow Pillow: Best Value
  3. Silk & Snow Adjustable Pillow: Best for Neck Pain
  4. Brooklyn Bedding Talalay Latex Pillow: Best Latex
  5. Helix Cooling Memory Foam Pillow: Best Cooling

Comparing the best pillows for side sleepers

Best Pillow for Side Sleepers Overall: Luxome LAYR Customizable Pillow

The Luxome LAYR Customizable Pillow on display
Courtesy of Luxome

Pros

 Standout pressure relief for side sleeping

 Customizable design for comfort and support

 High-end down alternative and memory foam construction

Cons

 Midrange cooling

 Stomach sleepers may find the standard loft too high

 Cover material: Natural viscose from bamboo

 Fill: Down alternative fiber and memory foam

 Firmness: Adjustable

 Loft (height): Adjustable

 Side sleeping pressure relief: 5 out of 5

Key takeaways from our testing

The Luxome LAYR Customizable Pillow earned a stellar side sleeping score for its balance of pressure relief and support. Bryan, a 62-year-old tester and combination sleeper, said the pillow “keeps my head and neck in place and feels very supportive.”

Pillows with a high loft, or a height of around 5 inches, typically work well for side sleepers. The taller profile helps fill the gap between the head and shoulders, keeping the neck and spine aligned. Tester Gerianne, a 66-year-old side sleeper with neck and back pain, also awarded the pillow perfect marks for pressure relief while side sleeping. “It’s really comfortable on my neck and is supporting it well. It also feels very soft against my face,” she said.

A man lies on his side on a mattress with his head on a Luxome LAYR pillow
Testers said the higher loft of the Luxome LAYR Customizable Pillow (seen here) helps support spinal alignment by filling the gap between their shoulders and head.
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Testers said the higher loft of the Luxome LAYR Customizable Pillow (seen here) helps support spinal alignment by filling the gap between their shoulders and head.

One of our favorite features of this pillow is its customization potential. It has three layers:

  • A soft insert made from down alternative
  • A medium insert made from down alternative and shredded memory foam
  • A firm insert made from a solid block of memory foam

You can unzip each layer and remove the cover for machine washing. Users can even make small adjustments to the height by removing filling from the soft and medium inserts. “I like that you can adjust it easily, so it can really work for anyone,” Gerianne said.

During testing, this pillow earned only a passable score in our cooling gun test. That test involves measuring the pillow’s starting temperature and comparing it to the temperature after a tester lies on the surface for one minute. The Luxome LAYR pillow retained 12 degrees of heat, which is average. For those looking for a truly cool-to-the-touch pillow, you may want to consider the Helix GlacioTex Cooling Memory Foam. The higher profile of the Luxome LAYR could also pose a problem for some stomach sleepers, as experts typically recommend a low pillow height to help stomach sleepers keep their spines aligned. Bryan gave it a poor score for stomach sleeping. “It’s folding in on my face a little bit,” he said. However, stomach sleepers can remove some inserts and fill to lower the pillow's height.

Best Value Pillow for Side Sleepers: Brooklinen Marlow Pillow

The Brooklinen Marlow Pillow on display
Courtesy of Brooklinen

Pros

 Wallet-friendly

 Very good cooling performance

 Supportive in all sleeping positions

Cons

 Not machine washable

 May feel too firm when fully zipped

 Cover material: Cotton; polyester side panels

 Fill: Memory foam and polyester

 Firmness: Adjustable

 Loft (height): Adjustable

 Side sleeping pressure relief: 5 out of 5

Key takeaways from our testing

At $65 for a standard size, the Brooklinen Marlow Pillow is the most affordable pillow in this review. Its material quality impressed our testers. Tester Donna, 60, a combination sleeper with neck pain, said she was impressed by the tightly woven cotton cover and clean stitching. This pillow also received a respectable score in our cooling gun test, retaining only 6.5 degrees. Donna said the pillow felt cool. "I think keeping the zippers open helps add airflow and make this pillow more breathable," she said.

The Brooklinen Marlow Pillow is similar in versatility to the Luxome LAYR Customizable Pillow, except you can control the height and firmness with zippers — there’s no need to remove the pillow’s fill. Unzip both sides of the Marlow for a soft feel, leave one side zipped for a medium feel or zip up both sides for firm support. Donna said she was “pleasantly surprised” by how comfortable and supported she felt while side sleeping, even though it felt firmer than her usual pillow. "It holds its height and shape but has enough give to conform to my neck and head," she said. Once both zippers were opened and the materials spread out, Donna said the pillow was soft enough to earn a favorable rating for stomach sleeping, as well. "My neck is aligned with the rest of my spine and not straining upwards," she said.

A woman sits on a mattress, zipping a pillow
You can adjust the firmness of the Brooklinen Marlow pillow (seen here) using a zipper, with the fully unzipped pillow offering a soft feel and the fully zipped pillow offering firm support.
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You can adjust the firmness of the Brooklinen Marlow pillow (seen here) using a zipper, with the fully unzipped pillow offering a soft feel and the fully zipped pillow offering firm support.

Donna said she was disappointed that the cover wasn't removable, because she prefers to wash her pillows periodically. The company recommends spot cleaning this pillow, though it says you can dry clean it if needed. If you’d prefer a pillow with a removable, washable cover, consider the Luxome LAYR, where all three covers for each layer of the pillow can be removed and washed. Alternatively, the company sells a Marlow pillow protector for $30 that’s washer-friendly and treated with an antimicrobial coating for added protection. Also, because firmness is adjusted with zippers rather than by adjusting the layers or amount of filling, the firmest setting could be too firm for some. While more tedious, pillows like the Luxome LAYR may allow for more precise customizations.

Best Pillow for Side Sleepers with Neck Pain: Silk & Snow Adjustable Pillow

The Silk and Snow Adjustable Pillow on display
Courtesy of Silk & Snow

Pros

 Best-in-class head and neck support

 Top-level material quality

 Generous warranty and sleep trial

Cons

 So-so cooling

 May be too plush for combination sleepers that may sleep on their stomach

 Cover material: 100 percent cotton

 Fill: Microfiber fill, shredded memory foam

 Firmness: Adjustable

 Loft (height): Adjustable

 Side sleeping pressure relief: 5 out of 5

Key takeaways from our testing

Tester Donna has neck pain, and while testing this pillow, she said she was impressed with the cushion and support it provided for her neck while on her side. She awarded it a perfect score for pressure relief while side sleeping. As with other pillows in this review, the Silk & Snow Adjustable Pillow is customizable. You can remove filling from its inner core to lower the pillow's height or tailor the firmness.

This pillow has CertiPUR-US and OEKO-TEX STANDARD 100 certifications. A CertiPUR-US certification means the foam has been tested to meet certain standards for emissions, content and durability. An OEKO-TEX certification shows the textiles have passed safety tests for the presence of harmful substances. Our testers said that the pillow’s certifications increased their confidence in its construction. "It's a quality-made pillow — you can tell by the seams," said Donna, who pointed out the tight weave in the cover that she said looked durable. The cover also felt soft and smooth to the touch. "I like the way it feels on my cheek — so soft," she added. Silk & Snow offers a competitive free trial (100 nights) and a long three-year warranty.

 A close-up of the certification tag on the Silk and Snow Adjustable Pillow
Third-party certifications, such as the OEKO-TEX STANDARD 100 pictured on the tag of the Silk & Snow Adjustable Pillow (seen here), are reputable badges that ensure the quality of a pillow’s materials.
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Third-party certifications, such as the OEKO-TEX STANDARD 100 pictured on the tag of the Silk & Snow Adjustable Pillow (seen here), are reputable badges that ensure the quality of a pillow’s materials.

In our cooling gun test, the pillow retained more than 13 degrees, resulting in an average score for temperature regulation. One lab tester said that since it's built like a pillow-in-a-pillow, there may be less room for airflow. "I could feel the pillow warming beneath my head as I lay there,” she said. Hot sleepers may prefer the Helix GlacioTex Cooling Memory Foam pillow, which was rated highly for its cooling performance. Another knock? Donna said this pillow was too tall for comfortable stomach sleeping. “It tilts my neck into an uncomfortable position,” she said. If you’re a stomach sleeper interested in this pillow, remember you can remove the fill to lower the height.

Best Latex Pillow for Side Sleepers: Brooklyn Bedding Talalay Latex Pillow

The Brooklyn Bedding Talalay Latex pillow on display
Courtesy of Brooklyn Bedding

Pros

 Bouncy, supportive latex

 Favorable scores for back and side sleeping

 Breathable foam

Cons

 Height can’t be adjusted

 Expensive

 Cover material: TENCEL lyocell

 Fill: Solid latex foam

 Firmness: N/A

 Loft (height): 4, 4.3 or 5 inches

 Side sleeping pressure relief: 4.5 out of 5

Key takeaways from our testing

Latex foam can be natural, derived from the sap of rubber trees or man-made. Pillows such as the Brooklyn Bedding Talalay Latex, which has natural latex, tend to be more durable and "bouncier," making it easier to change positions. "The solid latex feels responsive, and the outer cover is soft," a lab tester said. Lying on his side, tester Bryan said the bouncy feel was comfortable and supportive, and the springiness helped him change positions with less effort. While he said he wished the pillow cradled his head more, he confirmed it helped align his spine. Tester Gerianne said, “It’s bouncy and not too firm. It holds my neck in a nice position, and I don’t feel like I’m sinking in too far.” Both testers awarded this pillow admirable marks or higher for side sleeping pressure relief.

The pillow’s latex foam is perforated with small holes for airflow. The cover is made of TENCEL fabric, which Brooklyn Bedding says helps sleepers maintain an ideal temperature. "I never felt like I was warming up or overheating," said one of our lab testers. Although this pillow received only a midrange score in our cooling gun test (it retained 12 degrees), both Bryan and our lab testers said it feels cool to the touch.

A man lying on his back on top of a mattress and the Brooklyn Bedding Talalay Latex pillow
Tester Bryan said the latex material of the Brooklyn Bedding Talalay pillow (seen here) was “bouncy” but still adequately supported his head and neck.
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Tester Bryan said the latex material of the Brooklyn Bedding Talalay pillow (seen here) was “bouncy” but still adequately supported his head and neck.

The Brooklyn Bedding Talalay Latex Pillow isn't adjustable. Despite testing the higher-loft model, Bryan said he still wished it was slightly higher for side sleeping. The pillow is considered medium firm, which may be suitable for those who like to sleep on their side, but it's also dense. Another drawback: This pillow is pricey. It’s the most expensive model on this list at $174 for a queen size.

Best Cooling Pillow for Side Sleepers: Helix Cooling Memory Foam Pillow

The Helix Cooling Memory Foam Pillow on display
Courtesy of Helix

Pros

 Top-notch cooling

 Superb support for side sleepers

 High loft option

Cons

 Lackluster comfort for stomach and back sleeping

 Firmness is not adjustable

 Cover material: Polyester and polyethylene

 Fill: Memory foam

 Firmness: N/A

 Loft (height): 4 or 5.1 inches

 Side sleeping pressure relief: 5 out of 5

Key takeaways from our testing

The Helix Cooling Memory Foam Pillow nabbed a perfect mark in our cooling gun test, retaining only about 5 degrees of heat. One lab tester said they were impressed by how cool the pillow felt initially, and even more satisfied by how it remained cool the entire time they were lying on it. "I never felt like I was warming up or even getting temperature-neutral," the lab tester said.

A person holds a cooling gun over the Helix GlacioTex Cooling Memory Foam pillow
The Helix GlacioTex Cooling Memory Foam Pillow (seen here) earned an excellent temperature regulation score, retaining only 5.3 degrees in our cooling gun test.
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The Helix GlacioTex Cooling Memory Foam Pillow (seen here) earned an excellent temperature regulation score, retaining only 5.3 degrees in our cooling gun test.

Bryan said he felt comfortable and "super supported" while on his side. The pillow's loft, or height, sufficiently filled the space between his head, neck and shoulders. "It's one of the most comfortable side sleeping pillows I've ever tried because of the loft — it’s the perfect height," he said.

Bryan felt supported when lying on his side. However, he couldn't say the same for back or stomach sleeping because of the pillow's height. The pillow received a poor score for stomach sleeping, as Bryan said it was "definitely too high" and put stress on his neck. The pillow was also too tall to lie comfortably on his back, and he noticed strain in his head and neck. He said that if he were using this pillow as a combination sleeper, he would stick to side sleeping. Bryan also noted he wished this pillow was adjustable so he could customize the firmness.

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How we test pillows

We started our process by researching the market. Which pillows are popular and why? Which companies have the best customer reviews, and are the reviews legitimate? We also held a November 2025 sleep focus group with people between the ages of 51 and 69 to dig into what older adults want in a new mattress and pillow. Finally, in March 2026, we ran a sleep accessories survey of 300 adults ages 50 and older to gain a broader perspective on what matters when buying a new pillow. After completing our research, reviewing the results of the surveys and focus groups, and speaking with medical experts, we narrowed our list of pillows to test.

To identify each pillow’s strengths and weaknesses, we conducted controlled tests to assess features such as sinkage, ease of care and temperature regulation. We then recruited older adult testers to give us their unbiased feedback. They answered questions like: How easy is it to adjust the pillow’s height or firmness? Does your spine feel well aligned? Did the pillow warm up? The models that excelled in our tests made our list of the best pillows for side sleepers.

For more details on our process, see our mattress and sleep products testing methodology.

How to choose the best pillow for side sleepers

A good mattress helps to carry the weight of the whole body, but it's the pillow that mainly supports the neck, says Dr. Sean Ormund, a pain management doctor at Atlas Pain Specialists in Phoenix. "Pillows are important because they directly affect neck alignment during sleep," he adds. The right pillow for side sleeping supports the cervical spine — the part of the spine in your neck — especially if you have neck pain.

Your mattress and pillow are equally important for proper neck support, says Dr. Robert Norton, an orthopedic spine surgeon in Boca Raton, Florida. He recommends choosing a firmer pillow with enough height to fill the space between the shoulder and head. "This helps keep the neck in a more neutral position rather than tilting up or down during the night," he says. If you aren't getting this support from your pillow, "it can undo some of the benefits you would normally get from having a good mattress," he says.

If you're looking for a pillow that suits your individual needs and preferences as a side sleeper, the following features may be helpful to consider.

Pressure relief

A pressure-relieving pillow for side sleepers will evenly distribute weight across areas such as the neck and shoulders. Good weight distribution means less pressure on any one point. Excess pressure in one area could lead to stiffness and pain. The experts we spoke with recommended choosing a pillow with a higher loft (around 5 inches) to help keep the spine in neutral alignment when sleeping on your side. Generally, the appropriate pillow loft is about the same height as the distance between your shoulder and neck. 

Pillow height

How tall your pillow is can play a big role in keeping your spine aligned and your neck in a neutral position. The goal is to keep your neck straight and fill the space between your shoulder and head, says Ormund. "The right pillow keeps your neck aligned with your spine and can significantly reduce pain during sleep. If you wake up with neck discomfort, the pillow is often the first thing worth changing," he adds. Side sleepers often benefit from a higher loft compared to stomach sleepers. Our medical reviewer, Dr. Armand Ryden, the associate program director of the Sleep Medicine Fellowship at the University of California, Los Angeles, says that “highest isn’t always best,” and studies show that pillow height should be “the same distance between the shoulder and the neck.”

Material

Common pillow materials include memory foam, latex foam and down alternative. 

  • Memory foam pillows typically excel at cradling the head and providing contouring to relieve pressure. 
  • Latex has more bounce, so you can change positions more easily. 
  • Down alternative tends to be softer, so it may not provide enough support for the head and neck.

Some pillows have a combination of materials. For example, the Luxome LAYR Customizable Pillow has a mix of memory foam and down alternative. Norton says memory foam and latex pillows tend to work well for supporting the neck and spine for side sleepers. These types of pillows also tend to hold their shape better than softer pillows, he adds. 

“High-density materials that hold their form tend to be best, such as memory foam or natural latex over loose polyester fill or feather or down that collapse [under the weight of your head],” says Dr. D. Kojo Hamilton, a board-certified neurological spine surgeon and professor of neurological surgery at the West Virginia University School of Medicine.

Temperature regulation

The materials used for pillows can affect how breathable or cooling they feel. Latex is often cooler than memory foam because it often contains air pockets that enhance breathability. Memory foam, on the other hand, typically traps more heat because of its dense materials. However, some newer memory foam pillows have gel infusions or other cooling materials, so even hot sleepers can find a cool sleeping surface.

Joint or neck pain

If you're living with a pain condition, especially in the joints or neck, such as arthritis or spinal stenosis, you may benefit from a firmer pillow to keep the head and neck aligned with your spine, says Norton. "At the same time, you don't want it to be too firm, or it can create pressure points," he adds.

The experts we consulted recommend memory foam or latex pillows to provide consistent support and reduce the risk of stress on already sensitive joints.

Waking up with neck pain often signals a problem with your pillow, which may not be providing proper support, Norton says. If your pillow is a few years old and has started to lose its shape (including flattening), it may be time to replace it.

The right pillow helps keep your head level, not tilted up or down, Ormund, the pain management doctor in Arizona, says. Adjustable pillows can help you customize a thickness and firmness level that suits you best. 

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How much do the best pillows for side sleepers cost?

The best pillows for side sleepers on our list range in retail price from $65 to $172 for a queen or standard size. The Brooklinen Marlow standard pillow is the lowest-priced option on our list at $65. The most expensive option on this list is the Brooklyn Bedding Talalay Latex Pillow, at $172 per standard-sized pillow. Latex pillows, especially those made with natural latex derived from the sap of rubber trees, are generally more expensive than memory foam pillows because of higher sourcing and production costs.

FAQs

Do side sleepers need a firm or soft pillow?

Side sleepers may benefit from a medium-to-firm pillow that helps keep the neck and spine aligned, according to our conversations with experts. Soft pillows tend to collapse too much under the weight of the head, leaving the neck unsupported. “At the same time, you don’t want it to be too firm, or it can create pressure points,” says Dr. Norton, the orthopedic spine surgeon in Florida. 

Is a memory foam pillow better for side sleepers?

It depends on personal preference. Memory foam pillows offer good contouring and cradling, which can help support the head and neck. Latex pillows can also be a solid option for their support, breathability and bounce, but they tend to cost more.

How often should you replace pillows?

Experts typically recommend replacing your pillow after two to three years, depending on the durability of its materials. Pillows that have lost their shape, have grown lumpy or have flattened may not be supportive enough for side sleeping. A folded pillow should spring back to its original shape, says Dr. D. Kojo Hamilton, the board-certified neurological spine surgeon and professor. If it doesn’t, it may be time to buy a new pillow.

Questions or feedback? Email us at AARPSmartPicks@aarp.org.

 

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