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‘My Dad Died in My Arms’: Bradley Cooper Shares Personal Revelation at Caregiving Event

Cooper joined Josh Carter, actress Uzo Aduba and Emma Heming Willis at U.N. screening of his ‘Caregiving’ documentary


a group of people smile for the camera in front of a backdrop that says caregiving
(From left) Matt Cauli, Deborah Roberts, Ai-Jen Poo, Chris Durrance, Tom Chiodo, Uzo Aduba join executive producer Bradley Cooper at the U.N. screening and panel discussion for the documentary, ‘Caregiving.’
Corey Sipkin for Craig Warga Photography

The stereotype of a caregiver is often limited to an older spouse or a middle-aged daughter, but in reality, family caregivers span every age, gender, ethnicity and profession. One powerful example is actor and filmmaker Bradley Cooper, who became a family caregiver to his father, Charles, in his mid-30s. At the time, the actor was at the height of building his Hollywood career, yet he put some of it on hold to be by his father’s side during a five-year illness with lung cancer.

Cooper’s story underscores a vital truth: Caregiving doesn’t follow a script. Sometimes it’s a young professional, working couples, retired spouses or even celebrities. Cooper, now 50, spoke about how profoundly his caregiving experience changed him during a special screening of the new PBS documentary, Caregiving, at the United Nations in New York City on June 12.

“I moved into my childhood home for the last eight months of my father’s life, and I had to process my feelings, but when I was in the act of caregiving, it was very fulfilling.” Cooper, the documentary’s executive producer, described the experience as deeply personal and transformative, culminating in an unforgettable moment on Jan. 15, 2011, when his father passed away in his arms.

bradley cooper stands in front of a banner for his caregiving documentary
Bradley Cooper's experience with his father, helped inspire the documentary, ‘Caregiving.’
Corey Sipkin for Craig Warga Photography

Cooper’s experience, along with those of six other caregivers, comes to life in the two-hour documentary that is streaming now on PBS.org and will have its broadcast premiere on PBS on June 24, with upcoming screenings in Los Angeles and Boston.​

Film panel highlights caregivers’ courage and strength

A panel discussion was led by ABC news correspondent Deborah Roberts, who was a caregiver to her mom with dementia. The panel included Cooper, the film’s director Chris Durrance, Matthew Cauli, a spousal caregiver featured in the film and Ai-jen Poo, executive director of Caring Across Generations, a national advocacy group for families and care workers.

The film’s production team met countless caregivers across the country. “Many of them don’t even self-identify as caregivers. They see themselves simply as spouses, a son, a daughter, a friend helping out, without recognizing how important their work is,” Durrance said.​

Notable caregivers in attendance were Emma Heming Willis, wife of actor Bruce Willis, 70, who was diagnosed with frontotemporal dementia in 2022, and Josh Carter, grandson of President Jimmy Carter and former first lady Rosalynn Carter, who established one of the nation’s first foundations dedicated to caregiving, the Rosalynn Carter Institute for Caregivers.

Cauli shared his spousal caregiver experience with the audience. In May 2020, Cauli was suddenly thrown into his caregiving role when his wife, Kanlaya, suffered two debilitating strokes and was later diagnosed with a rare form of ovarian cancer. While he tried to juggle caregiving and work full time, he soon had to leave his job and go into poverty to qualify for Medicaid so his wife could receive treatment. Cauli remains a full-time caregiver to Kanlaya and their son, Ty, now eight years old.

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In search of support during the pandemic, Cauli turned to social media, sharing his journey on Instagram and TikTok. There, he discovered a community of fellow caregivers, especially men who were looking for similar help, and began posting raw, emotional videos about his family’s daily challenges.

When asked what advice he would offer fellow caregivers, Cauli emphasized the importance of support: “Find a support system, ask for help, lean on social workers and make time to step away. As a guy, I didn’t have many people to talk to, but I found my community through social media.”​​

a woman sits with her father in a room of their home
Tracy Eacret with her father, John, to whom she is providing end-of-life care at her Colorado home. Both are featured in 'Caregiving.'
Courtesy Ark Media

Editor’s note: A previous version of the story misidentified Josh Carter.

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