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From Mt. Rushmore to NYC: Eight Military-Inspired Wishes Shared Through Wish of a Lifetime from AARP

Veterans and families find connection and joy through dreams fulfilled—or still to come


a collage with images of people who have military inspired wishes through wish of a lifetime
AARP (Courtesy WOL, 7)

Wish of a Lifetime from AARP helps older adults achieve long-held dreams that honor their service, reconnect them with loved ones or celebrate meaningful life experiences. Many of the wishes come from veterans or their families. Each one is based on their own history and a desire to reconnect with meaningful moments. This photo essay highlights six dreams that have already come true — and two that soon will — showing how powerful a single experience can be in honoring service, legacy and community.

robert mccauley smiling beside another person at mount rushmore
Robert's Visit to Mt. Rushmore.
Courtesy WOL

A lifelong admirer of American history, Robert McCauley dreamed of visiting Mount Rushmore ever since seeing it in textbooks as a child. As a veteran of both the Vietnam War and Desert Storm, he faced rejection and hardship after returning home — experiences that left scars. In July 2024, Wish of a Lifetime arranged a trip for Robert and his wife, Peggy, where he finally saw the monument he’d long hoped to visit. “It felt so good, it was almost unreal,” he said. “We felt like we were king and queen that day.”

greg ryan placing his hand on the wall of the 9 11 memorial fountain
Greg Visits the 9/11 Museum and Memorial.
Courtesy Lee Smathers/WOL

After serving in the Air Force and laying hundreds of fellow service members to rest as an honor guard, Greg Ryan faced a new battle: stage 4 lymphoma. The illness left him unable to walk and searching for purpose. In June 2024, Wish of a Lifetime helped him fulfill a longtime dream: visiting the 9/11 Memorial in New York City. Greg recalled after the trip, “I was so emotional. I feel gratitude for living in this country and for the rights that we have as Americans.”

john swartz smiling at a memorial day event in his hometown
John, 100, revisits hometown for Memorial Day.
Courtesy WOL

At 100 years old, John Swartz made a meaningful return to his hometown of Maysville, Missouri, for Memorial Day. A World War II veteran, Swartz traveled with his daughter, Darla, to reconnect with the place where he built a life with his late wife and family. The visit gave him a chance to reflect on decades of service, love and community.

vicky herrell standing in front of a display with many flags
101 Year-Old Vicki visits Washington D.C,
Courtesy WOL

At age 101, Vicki Herrell traveled to Washington, D.C., to visit the war memorials she’d never seen. A Navy WAVES veteran and former “Rosie,” she was honored as a Living Legend and toured the World War II Memorial and the National Air and Space Museum’s Steven F. Udvar-Hazy Center, where she saw the aircraft she once helped build. “It was overwhelming and wonderful,” she said. “I felt like a celebrity.”

nathaniel pope with two people in front of a museum display
Honor Six Veteran Brothers with a Musuem Display.
Courtesy WOL

Nathaniel Pope’s wish was to honor his father, Rufus, and five uncles, all Black veterans who served in World War II, with a museum display recognizing their legacy. Wish of a Lifetime and his 13 cousins helped give the Pope Collection to the Black History Museum and Cultural Center of Virginia. The collection includes original portraits, service documents, medals and recognition materials honoring the military service of the six brothers across three major wars. It will be shown in a 2026 exhibit about African American military history.

joyce taylor pointing at a photograph on a memorial wall at pearl harbor
Joyce Visits Pacific Fleet Museum to Honor Father.
Courtesy WOL

Joyce Taylor traveled to Hawaii to honor her father, Paul Swinson, who died at sea during World War II. With her daughter Donna, Taylor visited the Pacific Fleet Submarine Museum and saw her father’s name on the memorial. “I feel closer to my dad after this trip,” she said. “It did a lot for me in my heart.”

margaret rhodes posing for a portrait in her air force dress uniform
Margaret "Maggie" Rhodes, 72.
Courtesy WOL

Maggie Rhodes has dreamed of spending Christmas in New York City since childhood, inspired by holiday films and memories of watching the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. A retired Air Force veteran with deep ties to the military, she’s never experienced the city during the holidays. This December, Wish of a Lifetime will send Rhodes and her son Brian to finally see the lights, landmarks and magic she’s imagined for decades.

stephan hunter posing beside a memorial for the world war two womens army corps
Stephan's Wish of a Lifetime is to see the White Cliffs of Dover.
Courtesy WOL

Stephan Hunter hopes to visit the White Cliffs of Dover, a place his mother spoke of often during her World War II service with the 6888th Battalion. After discovering her name in an article years later, his pride in her legacy grew. With support from Wish of a Lifetime, Hunter will travel to Dover to honor his mother’s memory and find peace in the view that once gave her comfort.

What You Can Do to Make a Wish Come True

​Wish of a Lifetime fulfills the dreams of older adults through personalized experiences that promote healthy and purposeful aging. Here are ways to support that mission:

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