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At 105, Virginia Hislop Got Her Master’s Degree in Education
Although gardening and playing bridge with friends are at the top of her to-do list, she never lost her love of learning
Virginia “Ginger” Hislop of Yakima, Washington, 105, admits she’s given up a few things, like owning dogs, golfing and hosting big dinner parties.
But she’s never given up her love of learning. Last June, Hislop traveled to Palo Alto, California, to accomplish something she left unfinished back in 1941: She picked up her master’s degree in education from Stanford University.
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“It was long overdue,” she says.
Hislop didn’t need more coursework. She had completed it all before leaving campus abruptly 83 years earlier to marry fellow student George Hislop. He’d been called up for military duty and she wanted to travel with him.
As an Army wife, Hislop spent time at Fort Sill, Oklahoma, and Camp Roberts, California. Once her husband’s service ended and he returned from a deployment to the Philippines, the couple and their two children settled in Yakima, where George was a sheep rancher.
Hislop never pursued her earlier dream to become a teacher. But once her children were in school, she found a different calling in education. Over several decades, she served on the boards of the Yakima School District and two area colleges.
Hislop has outlived her husband and children. Today, she lives independently, with regular check-ins from her son-in-law, Doug Jensen. Her four grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren all attended the outdoor graduation ceremony at Stanford.
She spoke with AARP about what life is like well into her 11th decade. The conversation has been lightly edited for length and clarity.
If you had to pick one reason that you’re still thriving, what would it be?
I think luck has a great deal to do with it. I come from very healthy stock. My mother lived well into her 90s. Women on my mother’s side of the family seem to live long lives.
What are you looking forward to when you get out of bed every morning?
Well, most of the year, I’m interested in what’s going on in the garden. And of course, I’m interested in what my grandchildren are doing. And then I like to know what the national news is and the international news and how it affects the markets. And then I usually have a book or two going. I read quite a lot.
What would you tell your 20-year-old self today?
The world is not going to come to a crashing end because you don’t get your way. So many things that you plan on don’t come to fruition, and you better be able to manage that and make the best of what does appear. I never thought I’d be an Army wife, and I spent five years in that role. At 105, I still have surprises that come up and I think, Oh gracious, what am I going to do about this?
How about your 50-year-old self?
Probably I’d say, don’t stew too much about your children. You’ve done the best you can bringing them up and giving them standards. What they do from here on out, you can stand back and look at, hopefully, and admire and keep your fingers out of it.
What is your exercise routine?
I love to garden. Usually, I’m down on my hands and knees pulling weeds. I really don’t like weeds. I take great pleasure in removing them. I love to walk. If I walk from my house, which is at one end of the dead-end street, up to the boulevard that goes east and west, then back again, it’s a quarter of a mile. When I had dogs, I walked farther than that, but at 105 I don’t think it’s a good idea to have a pet and risk falling over them… I used to play golf, but I haven’t done that, I think, since I was 88.
Is there one food that you just can’t live without?
Well, I certainly would be upset if there were no ice cream available. I don’t have to have it [every day]. I just have to know it’s there.
What is your social life like these days?
Well, like so many women of my age, I’ve been single for a long time. I play bridge with several different groups. I go out to lunch with friends, probably twice a week, nothing really terribly exciting. I no longer have dinner parties for eight, which I used to do regularly. Church is also a large part of my life. I go to Sunday services and we have a study group on Tuesday nights. I’m very fortunate. My friends are nice about giving me rides, because obviously I do not drive at this point.
You’re having a dinner party for anyone living or dead. Who would you invite and why?
Well, one guest would be Eleanor Roosevelt, because she broke so many barriers, and it was uphill all the way as far as I could see.
What’s on your nightstand?
I usually have a whodunit going and a biography and The Book of Common Prayer.
Do you have any advice for others who hope to live and thrive as long as you have?
You have to take care of yourself, eat a decent diet, and get exercise and sleep. And be positive about it, make sure that you do it, rather than saying, ‘Oh, well, tomorrow will do nicely.’ I think it’s important to have friends that you see frequently and to be interested in their families, as well as your own. I’m very fortunate to have good health and have friends and family, and I’m enjoying life.
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