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Key takeaways
- Understand how feelings of independence can help older adults age in place
- Assess if the transportation available will meets your loved one's needs
- Review local transportation options like buses, paratransit and volunteer services
- Consult local aging services for opportunities in your area
If you find yourself doing more driving for a parent or loved one who can no longer get behind the wheel safely, you’re not alone. Among the 63 million family caregivers in the United States, 79 percent provide transportation for an older adult or for a person with a disability, according to “Caregiving in the US 2025,” a research report released by AARP and the National Alliance for Caregiving.
While your loved one may accept rides to medical appointments when they can no longer drive, they’re probably aware of how much stress you’re under and may hesitate to ask for rides that are “unessential,” like meeting friends at a restaurant, says Shayna Gleason, a senior researcher with the International Transportation Learning Center, a nonprofit focused on improving public transportation.
“Having a variety of convenient and safe transportation options makes it easier for people to age in place,” says Christy Kwan, who helps local leaders design age-friendly communities as a policy adviser at AARP’s Livable Communities. “Walkable neighborhoods, public transportation and ride-sharing services connect people to social activities, jobs, medical care and community services that support their independence.”
To help your loved one stay connected to their friends and community, look to local resources. There may be more than just expensive cabs, Uber and Lyft available.
Will the transportation service meet your needs?
When you’re evaluating what options might be available, Gleason suggests discussing these questions with your loved one to evaluate together how useful each service will be:
When do they want to use the service? If they’re planning to go to weekend concerts, evenings out with friends or holiday gatherings with family, you’ll need to find out what kind of transit is available at those times.
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How do they want to plan? Is being spontaneous important to your loved one? Are they OK with booking several days or a week ahead, or do they want the flexibility to travel on demand?
Where would they go? Some services may not cross town or county lines, so you’ll want to see what destinations they need to access.
What kind of assistance do they need? Some services will help your loved one in and out of vehicles and buildings. If they use special equipment such as walkers or wheelchairs, will drivers be able to help them?
Who’s driving? If it’s important to your loved one that they travel with a familiar face, ask companies if they are able to provide the same driver each time.
6 senior transportation options
Options typically are most plentiful in urban areas and least plentiful in rural areas. To find out what’s available where you live, look into these six options:
1. Buses are affordable but not always convenient
Public transportation systems vary widely and might include everything from buses to trains to trolleys. What all public transit systems have in common, however, are fixed schedules and routes that can make it easier for your loved one to plan outings.
If your loved one isn’t familiar with the system, or is intimidated by using it, many public transit agencies offer what’s known as mobility or travel training.
Pros. Older adults and people with disabilities are typically eligible for free or discounted rides, which might also extend to their accompanying caregivers.
Cons. Fixed-route public transit may require your loved one to walk long distances or along routes without sidewalks. The bus or train stop may not be protected from the weather.
“Public transit is a benefit to people who live in urbanized areas — if they can get to the bus stop and if they can wait outdoors if it's very cold or very hot. There are a lot of limitations as people age. And people are reaching older and older and older ages these days,” says Katherine Freund, founder and president of ITNAmerica, an organization that supports nonprofit community-based, volunteer transportation services across the United States.
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