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Her voice wasn’t particularly large, compared to such contemporaries as Aretha Franklin and Donna Summer, but when Roberta Flack sang, her refined, honeyed alto forged a hushed intimacy with listeners that few artists could muster, in part from her “ability to take the most tired romantic cliches and invest them with a sense of quivering expectation,” as the New York Times once observed.
The first time she played “Killing Me Softly with His Song,” she remembered to AARP in an email interview in 2020, “I was opening for Marvin Gaye at the Greek Theater in Los Angeles. The audience asked for an encore. Marvin told me to sing another song, and I performed ‘Killing Me Softly,’ and the audience lost their minds. Marvin walked over to me, put his arm around me, and said, ‘Baby, don’t ever do that again live until you record it.’”
Her sensitive rendition of “Killing…” and other number-one singles such as “The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face” and “Feel Like Makin ‘Love” made her one of the best-known and most recognizable artists of the 1970s. She earned Grammy Awards for Record of the Year and Best Pop Vocal Performance in 1973 and 1974, including one for her collaboration with her college friend, Donny Hathaway, on “Where Is the Love,” for which she was credited with helping create the style of pop-soul love duet. In all, she totaled 14 Grammy nominations for her work that eschewed trends and spanned a variety of genres, from cabaret to gospel to light jazz-fusion instrumentation, at times reminiscent of Sarah Vaughan and Nina Simone.
Flack, who died at home on Monday, according to her spokesperson, announced in 2022 that she was suffered from amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), also known as Lou Gehrig’s disease. The condition robbed her of her ability to sing, and she had had trouble speaking in recent years. Flack suffered a stroke in 2016, and two years later was rushed to the hospital from New York’s Apollo Theater, where she was to receive a Lifetime Achievement Award from the Jazz Foundation of America.
Flack told AARP in 2020 that music had played a large part in her ability to recover from the stroke.
“To me, music is everything,” she said. “It’s the language of emotion, expression, and connection. It reaches across race, age, religion, borders, and time to connect us. No matter what challenge life presents, I am at home with my piano. I can find my way when I hear music.”
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