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John Mellencamp’s 7 Tips for Living Your Best Life

The musician reflects on his friendship with Bruce Springsteen and turning 70

singer song writer john mellencamp poses with an acoustic guitar

Myrna Suarez

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1. Work Around Your Issues

I can’t spell. I have dyslexia, and the words get all scrambled. So if I write something I want to save, I recite it to somebody, and they write it down properly.

2. Be Productive (and Do Cardio)

I’ve been fortunate enough to live an artist’s life since I was 22. Every day, I have to create something — a song, a painting. And if I don’t, I feel like I’ve wasted my time. I also have to work out every day, and I have to smoke. That’s my strong suit. I’m really a good smoker. 

3. Get Into Trouble

Summers always represented freedom for our generation. No school, and there were motorcycles and girls and county fairs, and I was always looking for mischief to get into. As the song says, “I don’t mind a reasonable amount of trouble.” And I still don’t. I don’t want the kind of trouble that you can’t get out of. But I don’t mind mischief.

“I believe in the subtle art of not giving a damn. Because you only have so many damns to give in this life.”

—John Mellencamp, 70

4. Nurture Later-Life Friendships

It’s very rare that you suddenly become friends with somebody that you have known a long time. I’ve known Bruce Springsteen for years, but our friendship really blossomed a couple years ago. We talk and text a lot. I cherish that.

5. Keep at It

Usually I have to write about a hundred songs to get one good one. Painting is the same way. You’ve got to keep slugging. The problem with most people is that they quit too early.

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6. Get off the Couch

I’m not a religious person, but there is some great wisdom in the Bible, including the notion that we were sent here to toil through our lives. And I believe that. We’re not here to lie around on the couch.

7. Mind the Age App

Turning 70 was hard. But a friend showed me an app that views your face and tells you how old you appear. She’s quite a bit younger than me and was bragging that she came up at 31. I was like, “Let me try that.” And I came up at 41. She said, “That can’t be right!” We both had a good laugh.

—As told to Alanna Nash

John Mellencamp’s new album, Strictly a One-Eyed Jack, features “Wasted Days,” a duet with Bruce Springsteen.