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A few weeks ago, I was cuddled up in bed, sleeping soundly with two fans blowing on me from opposite directions (because I am a woman of a certain age) when I woke up to my mobile phone making a strange noise. BIIPP. There it went again. I picked it up from my nightstand, only breaching my perfect blanket burrito with one arm. The message, which was from my house alarm system, read:
PATIO DOOR HAS OPENED
As I read those words, three things happened simultaneously:
- Adrenaline shot through my body as if I’d just slammed on the brakes in my car, narrowly missing a collision.
- All the hairs on the back of my neck stood up in unison, and I immediately started sweating.
- My phone emitted that little chirp again and flashed a further message that my alarm would start blasting through the house in 10 seconds.
One of my biggest fears was coming true. You see, while I take great pride in my courage when it comes to things like public speaking, traveling alone and eating raw seafood — actually being home alone, at night, still really freaks me out.
I’ve always been kind of jumpy.
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