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Theresa Nist Disputes ‘Golden Bachelor’ Gerry Turner’s Claim of Cancer Diagnosis as Reason for Breakup

“I knew about the cancer a long time ago,” Nist said.


Theresa Nist and Gerry Turner smiling while holding hands
Theresa Nist of "Golden Bachelor" fame says she would have never left ex-husband Gerry Turner over an illness, denying that his cancer diagnosis played a role in their split.
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The he said/she said between divorced Golden Bachelor alums Theresa Nist, 71, and Gerry Nist, 73, doesn’t seem to be slowing down.

In a podcast interview with iHeartRadio’s Almost Famous Podcast on June 5, Nist responded to Turner’s claim that their marriage dissolved because he was diagnosed with Waldenström macroglobulinemia, an incurable but slow-growing form of blood cancer that mostly builds up in bone marrow.

“I was just so surprised that he even said that. I knew about the cancer a long time ago,” she said. “The way Gerry presented it to me was that, ‘The doctor said that I’m going to die of old age before this cancer gets to me.’ He bluffed it off, like it really wasn’t that important, and he had no symptoms, and he still doesn’t.

“So we never had a conversation that said, ‘Oh my gosh, you’re sick. I can’t stay with you now. I have to leave.’ That never happened,” she adds.

Nist also told The Bachelor alums Ben Higgins and Ashley Iaconetti Haibon that she would have “never left my husband over an illness.”

Her response comes after Turner, 73, sat down with People magazine for an exclusive interview published in December 2024. While chatting with them, he told the outlet about the difficulty of sharing his health diagnosis with his then wife.

“When you are hit with that kind of news and the shock wears off, you realize what’s important to you,” Turner says. “I wanted my life to continue on as normal as possible, and that [meant] spending time with my family, my two daughters, my two son-in-laws, my granddaughters. And the importance of finding the way with Theresa was still there, but it became less of a priority.

“And I hope that people understand in retrospect now that that had a huge bearing on my decisions, and I think probably Theresa’s as well.”

Turner’s cancer was discovered when he met with an orthopedic surgeon after dealing with a bothersome shoulder injury for multiple years.

“Finally I got around to going [to the doctor], and the orthopedic surgeon said, ‘Yeah, Gerry, there’s not much we can do for your shoulder, but there are some unusual blood markers here,’” he continued.

“And so an orthopedic surgeon went to my family doctor, my family doctor referred me to an oncologist and now I’m working with a hematology-oncology group in Fort Wayne.”

At the time, Turner said he wished Nist “all of the good luck in the world.”

During an exclusive interview with People, also published in December 2024, Nist said, “I wish for him a long and healthy, prosperous life, and I hope that he finds his person. I want him to be so happy, and I just wish him all the best of everything in the world.”

Nist and Turner met on the first season of The Golden Bachelor in 2023, a spin-off of the popular Bachelor series, this one featuring contestants 60 and over. The couple got engaged during the season finale of the AARP Movies for Grownups Award-winning show in November 2023 and were married by January 2024, with the wedding airing live on ABC.

Theresa Nist and Gerry Turner wearing wedding attire
Turner and Nist married in January 2024 and divorced by April of that year.
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“You can find love at any age,” Theresa told AARP shortly before the wedding.

Nist and Turner divorced in April 2024, about three months after tying the knot. ​​

“I think we just think it’s best, for the happiness of each of us, to live apart,” Turner told Good Morning America previously.

A 2023 analysis of divorce data from 1990 to 2021 by Bowling Green State University’s National Center for Family & Marriage Research found that divorce rates for those age 45 and older rose during that period, while rates dropped for those younger than 45.

The most significant increase in divorce rates was among people 65 and older: The rate tripled from 1990 to 2021.

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