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Feel the Love With Our Valentine's Day Quiz

Test your knowledge of romance, dating and sex


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Question 1 of 12

How long does it take to fall in love?

You might not believe in love at first sight, but researchers at Syracuse University found that when people fall in love, 12 areas of the brain fire up to introduce chemicals that produce a euphoric feeling, similar to a cocaine high. And they concluded that it only takes a fifth of a second for this to take place. ​

Question 2 of 12

Valentine’s Day spending is expected to reach the second-highest amount on record in 2025. What is that figure?

The National Retail Federation predicts spending will reach a record of $27.5 billion this year — about a six-percent increase compared to last year’s spending total of $25.8 billion. The top five gifts are candy, flowers, cards, an evening out, and jewelry.

Question 3 of 12

The quote “You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how” is from which movie?

Margaret Mitchell's hero Rhett Butler (played by Clark Gable) says this line to protagonist Scarlett O’Hara (played by Vivien Leigh) in the 1939 Academy Award–winning film Gone With the Wind.​​

Question 4 of 12

In what state was a six-story, castle-like monument to love built on Heart Island?​

Wealthy hotelier George C. Boldt commissioned Boldt Castle for his wife, Louise. Construction stopped, however, after Louise’s unexpected death in 1904. Now restored by the Thousand Islands Bridge Authority, the property is a tourist attraction and contains a pool, billiards room, dove cote and bowling alley. ​

Question 5 of 12

How many dreams contain sexual content?

The American Academy of Sleep Medicine puts the figure at approximately 8 percent. That said, there are gender differences. Women are more likely to have sex dreams about politicians, celebrities or their exes; men, meanwhile, are more likely to dream about having sex with multiple partners at once.​​

Question 6 of 12

Older adults increasingly are turning to online dating sites to find romantic partners. At what age do women go from expressing more interest in older men to preferring younger men?​​

While women start showing more interest in younger men around age 75, men of all ages were shown to be more interested in physically attractive, younger dates, according to a 2023 article in the journal Human Nature.​​​

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Question 7 of 12

How many positive interactions should a stable and happy marriage have for every negative interaction?

​The Gottman Institute, which studies marriage and relationships, found that a very specific ratio exists to make love last: Five positive interactions for every negative one. The Institute suggests the following to foster positive interaction: Be interested in the other person, express affection, demonstrate the other person matters, show intentional appreciation, find opportunities for agreement, empathize and apologize, accept your partner’s perspective, and make jokes.

Question 8 of 12

For a healthy, 50-year-old man, the risk of having a heart attack while having sex is:​​

This is according to Harvard Medical School, which cautions that the risk is 10 times higher for men with heart disease.​​

Question 9 of 12

Which was the first band to record the song “Love Potion No. 9”?

The Clovers originally performed the song in 1959, although it was later recorded in 1964 by the Searchers during the British Invasion. The revised version went to number 3 on the U.S. Billboard Hot 100 chart in 1965.​​​​

Question 10 of 12

Which food is considered an aphrodisiac?

All of them! While the research providing a direct line between foods and sexual satisfaction is still a little shaky, there are foods known to exhibit properties that might enhance your sex life. Find out more about aphrodisiacs here.

Question 11 of 12

Research shows it takes as little as this amount of time to defuse an argument with your partner.

A 2024 article in the journal Communications Psychology explains that taking 5-second, 10-second and 15-second breaks had an equal effect on decreasing negative emotions and aggressive behavior between couples.

Question 12 of 12

Who said, “You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free”?

This gem of wisdom comes from Thich Nhat Hanh — a Vietnamese Zen Buddhist monk, internationally renowned author, poet, scholar, and peace activist who died in 2022 — in his book True Love: A Practice for Awakening the Heart.

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