AARP Caregiving Expert: Barry J. Jacobs
Barry J. Jacobs is a clinical psychologist, a family therapist and a member of AARP's Caregiving Advisory Panel.
His passion for enhancing support for family caregivers led him to write or cowrite dozens of articles and several books on the subject, including AARP Meditations for Caregivers: Practical, Emotional and Spiritual Support for You and Your Family and the forthcoming Love and Meaning at 50. He served as caregiver for his mother and stepfather, both of whom had dementia.
Jacobs has appeared as a caregiving expert on Dr. Phil and given more than 600 presentations for family caregivers, community groups, and medical and mental health professionals. His areas of expertise include behavioral health integration, complex care management, enhancing family caregiver engagement and supports, team-based care, and provider wellness.
A former magazine journalist, he helped put together the first edition of The Rolling Stone Encyclopedia of Rock & Roll.
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Barry's Latest Columns
‘When I’m 64’ — and Hope to Never Need a Caregiver
Steps everyone can take to remain independent as long as possible
Managing Aging Adults With Personality Disorders
Strategies include staying calm during outbursts and balancing loyalty with limits
What New Family Caregivers Really Need to Know
Regular exercise, respite breaks and connecting with others will help you in this challenging role
How Guilt-Ridden Caregivers Can Set Limits
To make long-term caregiving sustainable, consider some boundaries
Family Caregivers Wonder: What Is My Loved One With Dementia Feeling?
Employing strategies to help communicate may ease some worries
Embracing Tender Memories in Family Caregiving
Take a break from the nonstop to-do list to pause and make an emotional connection
When Family Caregivers Feel Used — and Angry About It
To lighten the caregiving load, make small, direct requests for assistance
How Caregivers Can Stop Arguing About Money
Dial down the emotions and talk through big decisions together
How Caregivers and Care Recipients Can Live Safely Amid COVID-19
Weigh the risks and health implications and make informed choices
5 New Year’s Resolutions for Caregivers to Consider
Positive intentions to embrace in the year ahead
How Exhausted Caregivers Can Regain Their Momentum
Prioritize connecting with a loved one over checking off items on the to-do list
How Nature Soothes Frazzled Family Caregivers
Spending time outdoors can increase relaxation and decrease worry and depression
How Caregivers Can Manage Risk-Taking Male Care Receivers
Channel dangerous impulses into physical therapy and other safer activities
Reducing Green-Eyed Envy in Family Caregiving
Learn how to manage your feelings and find a greater sense of purpose in your role
New Transparency in Doctor-Caregiver Communication
Better access to a health care provider's clinical notes may improve care
