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LGBT Advocate Sees Hurdles Ahead

Unless policies change, older gays and lesbians will face unique challenges as they age.

America's older population is growing, and so is the number of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) adults who are moving into their later years. In the next several decades, LGBT adults age 65 and above is expected to double, reaching more than 3 million by 2030.

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The Biggest Issues Facing the Older Gay and Lesbian Population

Older gays and lesbians are half as likely as their heterosexual counterparts to have family to lean on for elder care. — Hello Lovely/Corbis

In my job as executive director of SAGE (that's for Services & Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Elders), I'm constantly hearing about the unique challenges facing our community. These are the five main things we need to change if we want our society to be prepared for the full diversity of its aging population:

1. Basic Health Care

In the United States, about 80 percent of long-term care for older people is provided by family members, such as and spouses, children and other relatives. But LGBT elders are only half as likely as their heterosexual counterparts to have close family to lean on for help. This means that they rely heavily on the services of professional health care providers — doctors, pharmacists, or hospital and nursing home staff — who might be uncomfortable with or even hostile toward LGBT elders and who are not trained to work with them. In SAGE's experience, even when these providers are supportive, fear of discrimination prevents many LGBT older people from seeking out the care they need.

2. Caregiving Issues

Can you imagine not being able to care for a longtime partner or spouse, or have any say in your loved one's medical care? It's unthinkable for most of us. Because the support systems of LGBT elders — their partners and their families of choice — often are not recognized under the law, LGBT people frequently are not granted family or medical leave to take care of a sick or terminally ill partner. Furthermore, LGBT people can be excluded from decision-making on a partner's medical care and funeral plans, unless they have put specific legal arrangements in place. Unfortunately, many people don't make such arrangements, either because they can't afford the legal costs or because they, like so many Americans, think they can put them off for another day. (Here's a link to resources that can help you get those documents prepared.)

3. Financial Insecurity

LGBT older people are less financially secure than American elders as a whole. For example, poverty rates among elder lesbian and gay couples are 9.1 percent and 4.9 percent, respectively, compared with 4.6 percent among elder heterosexual couples. Several factors contribute to higher poverty rates, including employment discrimination and barriers in Social Security, Medicaid, and pension and retirement plans that deny same-sex couples key retirement benefits afforded to the broader population. In addition, state laws can shut LGBT partners out of an inheritance, or can require them to pay steep taxes on an estate that a surviving heterosexual spouse would inherit tax-free.

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