Circle of Care

By Gail Sheehy

You need to create a circle of people who will assume some responsibility for various aspects of care. Let members of your family and friends who have not been involved know that you have reached the end of your rope. They may assume you're handling it all. Even long distance, they can definitely be helpful. And don't be shy about asking for help from neighbors, coworkers, or your community. A professional care manager can save your life.

About Gail Sheehy

Gail Sheehy

AARP Caregiving Ambassador Gail Sheehy leads us through the Labyrinth of Caregiving, which she describes as a path of nine "turnings." Gail, author of the groundbreaking book "Passages," traveled around the country capturing the personal stories of a handful of the more than 44 million Americans caring for adult loved ones.

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