Would you change your sex life if you could? Would you like to figure out how to have your partner change the strength or direction of his or her caresses? Would you like to ask your lover to do something different or new? You're not alone.
October 17, 2009
There is no doubt about it, vacation is a good time to catch up on sex. During the week, we are often so busy, and so grumpy, that if sex happens, it is usually not state of the art—and notice that "if."
October 17, 2009
There is no doubt about it, vacation is a good time to catch up on sex. During the week, we are often so busy, and so grumpy, that if sex happens, it is usually not state of the art—and notice that "if."
October 17, 2009
Get the real scoop and find out what grade sex relationship expert Dr. Pepper Schwartz gave to foods most commonly known as effective aphrodisiacs including honey, oysters, coffee, chocolate, ginger, champagne and more.
October 17, 2009
So if you feel that work has deflated your sex life, you might be right, or it just might be the consequences—fatigue or a lack of fulfillment in your job. It could also be that you have just put too much into your work and not enough into your partner. Hard to reverse, I know, but not impossible.
October 17, 2009
Dr. Pepper Schwartz tells us that while being a "cougar" is great, cougar minds can exist without cougar bodies. You can see it in her eyes, her walk, her smile. Cougars own their sexuality even if it is not shared at the moment.
October 16, 2009

Dr. Pepper Schwartz, AARP's sex and relationship expert, has written 16 books on the dating habits and sensuality of couples and singles. Her mission is to improve the lives of aging boomers and the 50+ audience by enhancing their relationships and offering counsel on everything from sex and health issues, to communication and dating as you age.
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