LIFE AFTER LOSS

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Estate Tax Planning Calculator

This calculator can help you estimate your estate tax liability.

Resources

Getting Legal Help

When a family member dies, a lawyer can aid the family in solving many legal questions. Find out what steps you need to take next.

Guide for the Newly Widowed

In a difficult time, use these suggestions to help mourn and celebrate your spouse's life.

Helping Grandchildren
Deal With Grief

Here are some things you can say to your grandkids when they lose a parent.

Estate Planning Guide

Plan ahead as to who will inherit your property or what kind of medical treatment you want to receive or avoid.

Final Details

An overview of financial and legal steps to take when a family member or loved one dies.

Forrest Church didn't set out to be a minister. But after 30 years at the Unitarian Church of All Souls in New York, Church had hundreds of talks with parishioners facing their deaths. Could he heed his own advice when facing his own death? Listen how Church explains how religion formed his life.

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End-of-Life Counseling

By Michael Haederle

Experts say the "death panel" debate demonizes tough-but-essential conversations among doctors, patients, and families.

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Never Too Young for an Advance Directive

By Claudia Forestieri

When planning for the inevitable, draw up your advance directives as part of your life portfolio to be sure your loved ones make health choices according to your wishes.

From the Online Community

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Journal: Noticing the Difference
For one widow, learning to boil water began a series of life lessons.
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Group: Death of a Spouse

Group: Death of a Spouse
Show your support for others who are grieving the loss of loved ones.
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Saying Goodbye to Parents

By Diane Brown

The son of conservative icon William F. Buckley Jr. and socialite Patricia Taylor Buckley, Christopher copes with losing his mother and father within a year's time.

Poetry for Recovery

By Victoria Dawson

A new anthology of 115 poems describing trauma—illness and abuse, divorce and addiction, the death of a spouse or a child, and exile and war.

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