LIFE AFTER LOSS

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Guide to Planning
Wills and Trusts

Download this publication or these excerpts. (Adobe Acrobat required).

Getting Legal Help

When a family member dies, a lawyer can aid the family in solving many legal questions. Find out what steps you need to take next.

Guide for the Newly Widowed

In a difficult time, use these suggestions to help mourn and celebrate your spouse's life.

Helping Grandchildren
Deal With Grief

Here are some things you can say to your grandkids when they lose a parent.

Estate Planning Guide

Plan ahead as to who will inherit your property or what kind of medical treatment you want to receive or avoid.

Final Details

An overview of financial and legal steps to take when a family member or loved one dies.

By Sarah White

In Henry Elliott's final weeks, hospice eased his life, gave him dignity in death—and comforted his loving family.

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Never Too Young for an Advance Directive

By Claudia Forestieri

When planning for the inevitable, draw up your advance directives as part of your life portfolio to be sure your loved ones make health choices according to your wishes.

Buckley

Saying Good-bye
to Parents

By Diane Brown

The son of conservative icon William F. Buckley Jr. and socialite Patricia Taylor Buckley, Christopher copes with losing his mother and father within a year's time.

From the Online Community

Journal: Cruelladavl1

Journal: 'We' Became 'Me'
Cruelladavl1 rebuilds after her husband loses his battle with cancer.
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Group: Grief and Loss

Group: Grief & Loss

Find comfort among others who are coping with loss.
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Poetry for Recovery

By Victoria Dawson

A new anthology of 115 poems describing trauma—illness and abuse, divorce and addiction, the death of a spouse or a child, and exile and war.

License to Steal

By AARP Bulletin Today

What was the mental condition of Manhattan socialite and philanthropist Brooke Astor when she changed her will in the final years of her life? How jurors decide this question will likely determine the outcome of her son's trial on charges that he stole millions of dollars from her estate, legal experts say.

On Love and Death

By AARP Radio

Minister Forrest Church, son of former Sen. Frank Church, didn't expect to live until age 60. Dying from cancer, Church he feels grateful to be alive, and he spoke with AARP Radio about his belief that his remaining days are a gift.


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