Keith and Daphne Wolfard, only in their 50s, were enjoying a blissful second marriage. Daphne was fiercely independent, loving to prove she could reel in game fish bigger than herself. Keith built them a beautiful early-retirement home deep in the tall pines of rural Oregon. He didn't want to acknowledge his wife's creeping dementia.
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