LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS

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Voices

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The Naked Truth

By Dr. Pepper Schwartz

AARP's new sex and relationship expert, offers advice on everything from sexual and health issues to communication and dating.

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Mismatched

By Ron Burley

AARP consumer advocate Ron Burley helps two women retrieve thousands from an online dating service that left them mismatched.

Tools

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Personal Ad Maker

Answer 15 questions to receive a customized, personal advertisement that you can post wherever you'd like.

Resources

A Brief Guide to Matchmaking

Whether you're an extrovert who wants to meet as many potential mates in one night as possible, or a shy type who prefers a more laissez-faire approach, there's a dating service out there for you.

AARP Books

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Modern Love

By Sallie Foley

Sallie Foley gives the ins and outs to marriage, dating, and relationships, in her book "Sex & Love for Grownups: A No-Nonsense Guide to a Life of Passion."

Frisky Foods to Get
You 'In the Mood'

By Dr. Pepper Schwartz

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We are what we eat—and sense. The shape of some foods suggests sex. Others have the right chemicals. And some drinks just make your mojo bubble up.

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C*U*2nite: Flirting
Goes High Tech

By Jessica Leshnoff

Boomers, both single and married, are using text messaging to spice up their sex lives. Once the domain of teens, "sexting" appeals to busy adults because it is fast, easy, and fun.

Looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right? We Can Help

By Dr. Pepper Schwartz

Love and relationships expert Pepper Schwartz hears it all the time: There are no good men (or good women) out there. Usually that assertion is followed by a sad or funny dating story. Pepper doesn't share the conclusion.

From the Online Community

Group: Spiritual Explorations

Group: Spiritual Explorations
Explore the nature of consciousness, alternative spiritualities, philosophy and reality in this alternative-focused group.
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Group: How We Live Our Lives

Group: How We Live Our Lives
In this request-only group, you can discuss many aspects of spirituality and share what works (or doesn't) for your needs.
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Who Pays For a First Date?

Etiquette expert Peggy Post says a simple rule of thumb is that the person who extends the invitation pays, unless both parties agree in advance to share expenses.

Record-Setting Marriage

By Carla Adair Hendricks

Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher say their faith and family ties have kept them going strong for 85 years—a Guinness World Record for the longest marriage of a living couple.

Cougars and Their Cubs

By Jessica Leshnoff

Modern-day Mrs. Robinsons, some boomer women, prefer to date younger men who are often 15 to 20 years their junior. These women are called "cougars." Who are they, and how do they feel about their feline epithet?

AARP Member Benefits

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Travel Discounts

AARP Travel Center powered by Expedia has deals on cruises, car rentals, airfare, hotels and vacation packages.

Health Products & Services

Insurance, med supplies & drug discounts.

Financial & Legal

Guidance for retirement planning.

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Exclusive products for AARP members.

More to Explore

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Create The Good
AARP is calling on its members to Create The Good in their neighborhoods. Get involved.

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Find out what public or private benefits are available for older adults and families with children.

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Make your rock 'n' roll dreams come true at this fantasy camp for adults.

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Enter for a chance to win a trip and two tickets to this sequel's premiere!

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How does birth order affect your grandkids' personalities?

Attitude Adjustment

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AARP in Your State

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Sowing and Reaping

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Fresh salad anyone? This group is just for vegetable gardeners.

Films That Get 'Reel'

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Check out the fab flicks that won Movies for Grownups® awards.

Happy Returns?

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Why do retailers get so testy with customers who bring back gifts?