Ellie Hamby: Five years later, my husband passed away suddenly, right when Sandy was moving her medical practice to our city, Abilene, from her home 60 miles away. She called me and said, “I’ve got a deal for you. I need a place to stay in Abilene two nights a week. If you’ll give me a bed, I’ll take you out to eat.” That was 18 years ago. It’s never stopped. She was just here last night.