“I just wish I’d had this mental peace in my 30s—this perspective of ‘enjoy the process’ rather than these goals that mean nothing or getting caught up in other people’s expectations. I see it with my teenagers, and I’m not saying they’re suffering from it, but you’re just under attack as a teenager, and you’re finding your way in your 20s. I like being the age I am. I like the focus and the maturity that I’ve acquired.”