TRACI SORIANO, 54, used to avoid looking at her retirement account balances. The owner of a massage therapy practice in Bellingham, Washington, Soriano says she was afraid of what she might learn. “I really struggled,” she recalls. “My fear of not having enough made me not want to see what I had.” Soriano, a single mother who also teaches massage at a community college, finally confronted the situation after a snafu with her Social Security account inspired her to track down her balances and monitor them.