I think the real reason I do all this is because of my aunt. When she got Alzheimer’s, they stuck her in a state-run facility to live. I had no power to get her out of there or take care of her myself. It broke my heart. I would visit her, and one time I held her hand and said, “Hi, Aunt Mary.” She had been quite confused for a long time, but out of nowhere, she looked at me and said, “Faithy, you’re a good girl.” I thought, We don’t know what they know. We have to always treat them with respect and love and honor. —As told to Leslie Quander Wooldridge