The first step is to free everyone of guilt, says Matt Paxton, a downsizing expert and author of Keep the Memories, Lose the Stuff. Heirs have no moral obligation to maintain someone else’s collection. Whether you’re the collector or an inheritor, “give yourself permission to let it go,” he says. If you want to acknowledge the collection for posterity, keep one cherished piece, photograph the rest of the collection, or film yourself telling its story. Then move on.