En español | After a certain age, it's easy to dismiss sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) as something you don't have to worry about. But experts note that anyone, at any age, can contract such an infection, and rates of STDs among adults age 65 and older have more than doubled over the past decade, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
That's partly because older adults are living longer and enjoying active sex lives, thanks to medications for erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness. They are also less likely than people in many other age groups to use a condom, in part because they aren't concerned about pregnancies.
"Older Americans get lulled into a false sense of low risk,” says Sten Vermund, M.D., dean of the Yale School of Public Health and coauthor of a 2021 report on STDs for the National Academies of Sciences, Engineering and Medicine. “They think, I'm a grandfather or grandmother – how can I be at risk of a sexually transmitted infection?” But if you are having sex with a new partner or outside of a monogamous relationship, you are at risk, he says.
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Monica Christmas, M.D., director of the Center for Women's Integrated Health at the University of Chicago, says her older patients are often shocked when they are diagnosed with an STD.
"They say, ‘But this is the only person that I'm seeing,’ “ she says. “They make assumptions that they are the only person their partner is with, but they're not having those conversations. We are really impressing on them that condom use is so important, even though you can't get pregnant.”
Many STDs carry health risks without early signs
Another problem: Health care providers tend not to ask their older patients about their sex lives, so they don't always get screened for STDs, says Michigan geriatrician Gwendolyn Graddy, M.D.
"Often, as physicians, we don't equate our older adults with being sexually active, and we may not be looking for the signs and symptoms of STDs, because it's not first thing on our minds,” Graddy explains.
Many people infected with STDs don't have immediate or obvious symptoms, or they have symptoms that can be easily mistaken for another health condition.
Unfortunately, that means a disease can go untreated for years, leading to long-term health issues, such as HIV, increased cancer risk, and cardiovascular and neurological problems. You can also end up unknowingly sharing the infection with an unsuspecting partner.
That's why doctors recommend that if you enter a new relationship, you get tested for sexually transmitted infections and ask your partner to do the same — whether or not you or your partner has symptoms.
Here are six of the most common signs of sexually transmitted infections according to our experts. If you have any of these, see your health care provider and ask to be screened.
1. Bumps or sores
If you notice a bump, sore, wart or blister on or near your genitals, that's cause for concern, even if it disappears without treatment. Syphilis can cause a firm, painless sore or multiple sores where the disease enters your body, and herpes produces painful, bubblelike blisters. Chancroids and HPV can also cause bumps in the genital area. If you engage in oral or anal sex, STDs can cause bumps and blisters on your lips, inside your mouth or around your anus.
2. Unusual discharge
Discharge from the genitals is often a sign of STDs such as gonorrhea, chlamydia and trichomoniasis. For men, any type of penile drip or oozing is not normal and should be a red flag, Vermund says. Discharge is more common in women, but they should see a health care provider if they notice any abnormal discharge, particularly if it has an odor or a green or yellow tint.
3. Itching or irritation
If you're a woman experiencing itching along with vaginal discharge, don't assume it's a yeast infection, advises Melinda New, M.D., an obstetrician-gynecologist at Vanderbilt Health. In many older adults it's actually trichomoniasis, an STD caused by a tiny parasite and that's easily treated with an antibiotic. “People think it's a yeast infection and go out and get some Monistat or call their doctor's office and get treated over the phone,” New says. “If the itching is persistent, insist on an in-person exam. Self-diagnosis and phone diagnosis is notoriously inaccurate. You want someone to take a swab and look at it under a microscope.”
In men, trichomoniasis can cause itching and irritation inside the penis. Intense itching can also signify pubic lice (crabs) or scabies, two contagious skin conditions resulting from parasitic insects that can be spread through sexual contact.
4. Vaginal bleeding
Postmenopausal vaginal bleeding or spotting between periods if you're still menstruating is a sign to watch, especially if it happens after intercourse. It can be a symptom of gonorrhea or chlamydia. Herpes sores can also bleed. If you've had sex involving the anal area, an STD can cause bleeding from the rectum.
5. Burning with urination
A burning or stinging sensation when you pee is often assumed to be a urinary tract infection, but it's a symptom of many STDs, too. Gonorrhea and chlamydia are the most likely culprits, Graddy says. Painful urination can also be caused by herpes and trichomoniasis.
6. Pain or irritation
Pain in your lower abdomen or pelvis can be a sign of pelvic inflammatory disease, a complication in women caused by untreated chlamydia and gonorrhea. Many STDs can also lead to changes in your genitals that make sex uncomfortable or painful.
Michelle Crouch is a contributing writer who has covered health and personal finance for some of the nation's top consumer publications. Her work has appeared in Reader's Digest, Real Simple, Prevention, The Washington Post and The New York Times.